In this parenting tips video Asif Ali Khan talked about 3 dangerouse Cs
(Comparison, criticism and correction) which kill the confidence of a child.
in order to raise a confident child, parents must consider it.
Assalamualaikum sir..sir meri 9 saal ki ladki hai..bht samjhdar hai..lekin thoda sa bhi daant du kisi baat par toh naraaz hokar bht hi khamush hojati hai…us time kya karna chahiye.
But sir…..choty batchon ko seekhana parta…hy….jaisy mery beta 5 years ka hy…..quran ka adab karo….jab is parhty hain tou jamps nhe karty….khana khata tou lato nhe uttha seedhA Betho phr kaho……ghar ja jab school sy aty ho tou doorbell rakha bhol jaty ho….main us ko daily samjhy tou batchay ko preesarise karna hy…
Apki bat bilkul thik ha.jo jo apny bola.hmary gr me bat bat py bchy ko esa bolbol k dant dant k esa kr dia gya ha uska qasoor na b ho to wo chup kr k mar kha leta ha.protect krta e nhi.itna b nhi bolta mera qsoor nhi.ab ye sb kesy thik kia ja skta ha
السلام علیکم بہت اچھے ۔ میری بیٹی 3 سال کی ہے اور joined system کی وجہ سے وہ گالیں سیکھ رہی ہے میں خود نہیں نکالتی وہ مجھے بھی بولتی ہے پر میں ignore کرتی ہوں اور بعد میں سمجھاتی ہوں میری مدد کرے کہ میں اسے کیسے کیری کروں پلیز اس پر ایک ویڈیو ضرور بناے جب بچہ گالی سیکھ جاے تو کیا کرے ۔
Ma shaa Allah great sir.. apki videos zror dikhti buht help milti buht Kuch sikhne ko milta.. jazak Allah.. Allah apko hmesha Khush rkhe hr mor pe kamyab kre ameen
Sir kindly yeh bataein k sometimes baccho ko samjhaty huey doosrey baccho ki example de dete hain.(in other word comparison). Is ko avoid kaisey karein? Kaisey bat convey karein?
Ma sha Allah sir bahot nek kam kare bahot khbsurat andaz mein bolte hai sunnat ko leke bolte ma sha Allah apke vedio se bahot zayada learn karne milta Allah pak apko aur apki family ko achi sahet se nawaze ameen
Aoa sir i really lile ur videos alot n lrarnt many things from you… jazakallah…. sir plz i m v worried for my elder daughter… she is v intelligent , her teachers comment that we always get a unique point from her, she is 7 years old n in class one but her attitude is v carefree…. mean during lecture she keep on playing with things , teacher cross checked her but she gave the correct answer… dil kr rha hota ha tu c.w. karti ha else tired ho tu excuse kr leti ha… me ne reward tech b use ki, pyar se b smjaya but zero effect… reward se thora sa farq aaya but thn again wohi haal… unable to understand her issue… if she will not be changed thn it will effect in further studies…plz do reply
Alhumdulillah first c and second c to nahi hai sir. But 3rd c its correction hai in sha Allah usko bhi control karne ki koshish karugi.. Jazakallah khair aapki wajah se ek khami ka pata laga Aaj in sha Allah use bhi thik karne ki koshish karugi.
Hi, Hope u are doing good. Lots of blessings and credits to you, for helping me train my kid rightly. There were lots of corrections made after I started hearing you and Alhamdullillah it’s been 3-4 months, much better progress. Allah guided me before it’s too late and saved me from being at wrong or loss through my own unawareness.
Anyways I had a question, so I seek your suggestions and tips to become Hifze Quran at the age of 28, very desperate yet scared to step on to this big responsibility because of my weak memory and many stuffs that revolves around my life. Correct me and guide me rightly please. Waiting 😊
Meri tu aik hi beti h but ap hamesha se Meri request ignore krte h zyda bachon pr tu hamesha videos banate h ap but meri beti ab 7and half ki hogie pls pls,
lrki hony ki wja se mery maa or bap ne hmesha nfrat ki q k me beti thi or bety k din rat lad uthaty the aj in maa bap ki nafrat ne meri puri zndgi brbad kr di or wo beta jis k lad uthaty the us ne mujhy or meri maa ko ghr se nikal diya
Great sir
Assalamualaikum sir..sir meri 9 saal ki ladki hai..bht samjhdar hai..lekin thoda sa bhi daant du kisi baat par toh naraaz hokar bht hi khamush hojati hai…us time kya karna chahiye.
تصحیح اور تنقید کچھ بھی نہ کریں تو مطلب کے بچوں کو ان کے حال پر چھوڑ دیں ؟؟؟؟
App ney bilkul theek kha hy
But sir…..choty batchon ko seekhana parta…hy….jaisy mery beta 5 years ka hy…..quran ka adab karo….jab is parhty hain tou jamps nhe karty….khana khata tou lato nhe uttha seedhA Betho phr kaho……ghar ja jab school sy aty ho tou doorbell rakha bhol jaty ho….main us ko daily samjhy tou batchay ko preesarise karna hy…
Adopted Bache ko btana chahye k AP adopted ho .agr hato kab btana chahye. Jaha se adop Kiya h in se milna julna karna chahye ya nai plz make videos
Kaise samjhau bacchon ko
Assalamu alaikum sir samajh mein nahin a Raha kya kare
Apki bat bilkul thik ha.jo jo apny bola.hmary gr me bat bat py bchy ko esa bolbol k dant dant k esa kr dia gya ha uska qasoor na b ho to wo chup kr k mar kha leta ha.protect krta e nhi.itna b nhi bolta mera qsoor nhi.ab ye sb kesy thik kia ja skta ha
السلام علیکم بہت اچھے ۔ میری بیٹی 3 سال کی ہے اور joined system کی وجہ سے وہ گالیں سیکھ رہی ہے میں خود نہیں نکالتی وہ مجھے بھی بولتی ہے پر میں ignore کرتی ہوں اور بعد میں سمجھاتی ہوں میری مدد کرے کہ میں اسے کیسے کیری کروں پلیز اس پر ایک ویڈیو ضرور بناے جب بچہ گالی سیکھ جاے تو کیا کرے ۔
پلیز میں نے پہلے بھی درخواست کی تھی from 🇬🇧
Jazakallah
میں نے آزمایا ہے آپکی باتوں پر عمل کیا اور مجھے اسکا رزلٹ بھی نظر آتا ہے اللہ پاک آپ سے ہمیشہ راضی رہے
ji bilkul apni correction krna chahti hun me plz help me apne bachu pr na chahte hue b bht gussa krti hun me khud ko kese thik kru?
I have learnt much from your videos sir Allah bless you and yor family
Main janne aaya tha main low confidence kyu… Aap ka shukriya..
Lakin agr bucho ki correction na kii Jaye to phr wo adut bhi to bun jati Hana bucho kii..ye b to tention ha
Thanx really helpful 👍
Ma shaa Allah great sir.. apki videos zror dikhti buht help milti buht Kuch sikhne ko milta.. jazak Allah.. Allah apko hmesha Khush rkhe hr mor pe kamyab kre ameen
Assalam.o.Alikum sir. Your vedioes are very helpfull thank you for guiding us properly. Allah bless you with more and more .
Sir kindly yeh bataein k sometimes baccho ko samjhaty huey doosrey baccho ki example de dete hain.(in other word comparison). Is ko avoid kaisey karein? Kaisey bat convey karein?
Kindly share your precious suggestions about how to avoid first two C's?
Ma sha Allah sir bahot nek kam kare bahot khbsurat andaz mein bolte hai sunnat ko leke bolte ma sha Allah apke vedio se bahot zayada learn karne milta Allah pak apko aur apki family ko achi sahet se nawaze ameen
Plz suggest how to avoid starting 2 Cs
Aoa sir i really lile ur videos alot n lrarnt many things from you… jazakallah…. sir plz i m v worried for my elder daughter… she is v intelligent , her teachers comment that we always get a unique point from her, she is 7 years old n in class one but her attitude is v carefree…. mean during lecture she keep on playing with things , teacher cross checked her but she gave the correct answer… dil kr rha hota ha tu c.w. karti ha else tired ho tu excuse kr leti ha… me ne reward tech b use ki, pyar se b smjaya but zero effect… reward se thora sa farq aaya but thn again wohi haal… unable to understand her issue… if she will not be changed thn it will effect in further studies…plz do reply
Alhumdulillah first c and second c to nahi hai sir. But 3rd c its correction hai in sha Allah usko bhi control karne ki koshish karugi..
Jazakallah khair aapki wajah se ek khami ka pata laga Aaj in sha Allah use bhi thik karne ki koshish karugi.
Hi,
Hope u are doing good.
Lots of blessings and credits to you, for helping me train my kid rightly. There were lots of corrections made after I started hearing you and Alhamdullillah it’s been 3-4 months, much better progress. Allah guided me before it’s too late and saved me from being at wrong or loss through my own unawareness.
Anyways I had a question, so I seek your suggestions and tips to become Hifze Quran at the age of 28, very desperate yet scared to step on to this big responsibility because of my weak memory and many stuffs that revolves around my life. Correct me and guide me rightly please.
Waiting 😊
Right u r so great leader
Thank you so much for your great guidance.
Lazy kids ko kaise sudharen?PLZZ help keejiye…i dont know how to hep my child
Sir mery bachy Kisi KY samny bohat Fri ho jaty hn or batmizi bohat karty hyn plz is par video bnay mein bohat paryshan Hun in ki Umar 5sal hy
Meri tu aik hi beti h but ap hamesha se Meri request ignore krte h zyda bachon pr tu hamesha videos banate h ap but meri beti ab 7and half ki hogie pls pls,
Nice Message
lrki hony ki wja se mery maa or bap ne hmesha nfrat ki q k me beti thi or bety k din rat lad uthaty the aj in maa bap ki nafrat ne meri puri zndgi brbad kr di or wo beta jis k lad uthaty the us ne mujhy or meri maa ko ghr se nikal diya
choty bcho mai 3 years ki age mai bcho mai sharing habbit kese develop ki jae
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