There are four widely researched styles of parenting: authoritative, permissive, authoritarian, and neglectful. The styles range from controlling to undemanding, and from cold and unresponsive to loving and receptive. In recent years, over-involved parents, who are present in every aspect of their child’s life, are often referred to as the fifth style. They are also known as snowplow or helicopter parents. #parenting
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Chapters:
0:00 Parenting styles
1:07 Authoritarian parenting
2:08 Permissive parenting
3:00 Authoritative parenting
4:02 Neglectful parenting
4:48 Over-Involved parenting
5:32 Research
5:50 Tips for parents
6:14 What do you think?
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Parenting styles: An evidence-based, cross-cultural guide
https://www.parentingscience.com/parenting-styles.html
Parenting Styles: A Closer Look at a Well-Known Concept
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6323136/#:~:text=Based%20on%20the%20combination%20of,and%20high%20responsiveness
Parenting Dimensions and Styles: A Brief History and Recommendations for Future Research
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3746212/
Academic competence and parenting styles, as meta-analysis
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/281561178_Associations_of_Parenting_Styles_and_Dimensions_with_Academic_Achievement_in_Children_and_Adolescents_A_Meta-analysis
Meta-analysis of research from 1,435 studies on associations of parenting dimensions https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28459276/
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So Asian parents are too strict, Caucasian parents are either hippies or evil heartless Capitalists, and Black parents are the best parents? Okay got it.
Thanks so much
The main mistake in all of those is that parents do not explain how the world works. First of all, nearly every person has to get food and shelter and for this in the past people did this and that … But now they do this and that.. that's why we need certain skills.
Love how racist this video is. They describe authoritarian parent with Asian looks.
My parents were authoritative while married then each went a different way after their divorce, one tried to do everything for us while the other was more self absorbed and distant. I was thirteen at the time and it was super confusing.
I work with some young adults who were clearly babied. Totally useless and used to throwing tantrums to get what they want. No preparation whatsoever for the real world.
Today's parenting is absolutely terrible (given what they share on social media platforms).
Authoritarian draw as Asian.
Luckily it is something negative draw with Asian… if it was draw with black people will scream at “racist”… with Asian, it is fine. They won’t complain much.
People really just blaming their parents for all their life problems in the comments 😂
imagine having 1&4 at the same time.
ohhh, wait,, Imagine no more,,, im living in one. 😅
The authoritative one is good
it's interesting that you don't get a driver's license for education.
My mom used to do this and it confused me greatly
30 minutes a day!!
I feel like my parents have gone from over involved parents to neglecting parents- everyone says my mom does way too much for me and they’re even hinting that I don’t deserve it and that I’m spoiled, but they don’t know that she’s actually become very distant over the past few years and that just hurts so much
It’s like no one acknowledges what her parenting style has become and because of the effects of her earlier parenting style, I seem to be the black sheep
I just got the bad parts of all the spectrum, life is trolling me.
I got authoritative parents, thank God.
Soooooo, you're suffering from mental health problems? It's probably because of the mentioned parenting styles…
There’s always the child’s personality to consider, as well. Some children are mature and independent and driven, therefore requiring less parental monitoring. Other children are lazy and slobs so the parents find they have no choice but to support them which reinforces the child’s laziness.
Ignore, and be ignored. Note: This is not neglectful.
My mom is the 5th style of parent
Authoritative parent (firm but loving) doesn't feel like it's own category, instead it feels like it is just the right mix of the 3 other styles,… Sometimes you are Authoritarian and lay down the law with the right amount of Permissiveness thrown in to make kids feel heard, then other times you are Permissive but with a bit of authoritarian thrown in to have/keep some boundaries, yet other times you are neglecting (within reason) to let kids figure out somethings for themselves with a bit of permissive & helicopter parenting thrown in to again make sure there are some boundaries. Just one large mash up of styles.
Can this video be even more racial stereotypical? 😂
i really think what the child becomes depends mostly on his personality and if he has siblings or not. For example depending on the personality a kid with "permissive parents" will learn the boundries himself and responsibilize himself like when you give a child money some will spend it without thinking some won't and the child sometimes try to "make up" for his parents inconscience and grow up to be a responsable adult by having freedom to learn and choose forhimself since childhood. Also neglect and permissive often come together and in either way the child can end up ultra responsable and indépendant to balance with his parents or a spoiled adult that always tries to be noticed by his parents or that doesnt care about ppl around them. Also having siblings totaly changes your way of growing up and your education. Siblings can be the responsability and the boundries that permissive parents wont give you. With neglecting parents having siblings just creates another family dynamique where the parents are just a bonus a "plus" if they are not here the family still live and no child will really feel alone and abandoned.
What an over simplification.
There should be greater discussion about the reality, that no parent falls into one of these boxes, that instead, we are all hybrids of each if not all styles.
When I played with the neighbourhood kids, when they said “no” and I asked “why”, they would say “because no” as an answer. My authoritative parents explain that my neighbours’ parents would refuse to explain the rules and reason to their kids, whereas if I asked “why” to my own parents I would get an explanation!
Sadly this lead to my parents blaming me whenever tell them I got into conflicts with others. I must have been too questioning or nagging to others…I pissed others off, etc. I’m on exchange right now. I find that I always gaslight myself to think it’s my problem if others get into a conflict with me. Turns out it turns me into a people pleaser…
This would be really helpful if all kids were the same. They're not.
Ahahah the archetype they use are so racist
Authoritarian: demanding Asian mother
Neglecting: hard-working latino father
Permissive: hippies whites trash
Authoritative (the good guys): black couple (probably because they wanted to used diversity characters, but were affraid of being racist).
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