No one is born knowing how to be a parent. And we know that parenting can be difficult sometimes. But some parents focus so much on what they should be doing and forget about what they should not be doing. Below is a list of things no parent should ever do to their child.
Disclaimer: If you can relate to any of these signs, please do not take this feedback as an attack on your character. This video is meant to be a self-improvement guide for those of you who have been feeling a little stuck.
We also made another video on the things toxic parents may say: https://youtu.be/GS_mATLF7BE
Writer: Sara Del Villar
Script Editor: Caitlin McColl
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REFERENCES:
Amen Clinic. (2019, May 2). 10 things parents should never do. Amen Clinics 10 Things Parents Should NEVER Do Comments. Retrieved from www.amenclinics.com/blog/10-things-parents-should-never-do/.
Buttner, J. (2018, June 1). 25 things parents should not do. MyKidsTime. Retrieved from www.mykidstime.com/for-parents/25-things-good-parents-should-not-do/.
Mintbook. (2020, November 24). Top 11 things parents should never do to their children. Mintbook. Retrieved November from mintbook.com/blog/top-11-things-parents-should-never-do/.
Powers, M. (2021). 20 ways to start a conversation with a child. Tootris. Retrieved November from tootris.com/edu/blog/parents/20-ways-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-child-without-asking-how-their-day-was/.
The Soul Publishing. (2018, February 11). 10 things parents shouldn’t do for their children. Bright Side – Inspiration. Creativity. Wonder. Retrieved from brightside.me/inspiration-family-and-kids/10-things-you-shouldnt-do-for-your-children-448610/.
Things my guardian does here
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My parents do all but 4 and a bit of 7. The 4 isn’t an issue, but they do all of the rest and it is why I came here. To get a different view.
my parents do around 6/7 of these.
I can relate.
All but one match my parents. They were unpermissive & abusive, yet hold no accountability.
Really, my sisters, brothers and friends all have major problems, which I think we knew already. 😂😂😂😂😂 The narrator sounds about 10 years old.
my mom invades my privecy
wrong spelling
The bad thing is parents always care about grades and marks and smartness. But they say Nobodys perfect. And expect our perfection.
They get so angry when we just ask something, so unfair.
I can confirm both my parents did every single one of these things when I was growing up 😅
my mom would yell at me for being in bed depressed
Number 2 is definitely important
My parents always complain about how difficult I am, but then get mad when I say I want to move out.
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My dad once got me to jump in the ocean and I got see water in my mouth and eyes he wanted me to do it again and I screamed no bc I was in pain a panic I got in trouble and couldn’t stop crying he yelled at me to stop it wasn’t that bad (btw this was on my B day cruise) and when my mom tried to comfort me but he said to stop he ended up never apologizing for that and kept on yelling at me but what hurt was that my mom was doing nothing 😢
the first 7 things is litrealy what my parens did to me!
3:00 real every time I call my mom she feels like I call her every ten secs and my dad he just stressed and I’m just bing chilling as a child
1. My dad never really "ignores" me but my mom- I'm saying things, talking about my day or myself, she never listens and i feel so frustrated. She does always listen to my brother though.
2. Oh they compare me with everyone. For example I can't do house chores or cook, i help her do it but i never totally do them so she compares me with my friend who does know how to cook.
When i was in 11th standard (I'm in 12th now), i had a real bad phone addiction and i was trying not to use my phone that much. My dad says to that "you have other friends who don't use their mobiles even tho they have smart phones why can't you be like them. sigh
3. And well, there is no privacy of my own. I'm 17, they check my phone, NEVER let me go and hangout with my friends in a cafe or somewhere like that and they don't even let me go to their houses. They think i date every guy I'm talking to for some reason. So, I basically have to hide the existence of my guy-friends from them. it's so damn exhausting. I used to tell them everything about my life, but now i just don't. I can't bring myself to talk to them about my life.
And when someone (anyone known or unknown) calls me, they run so fast to pick up the call before me lol to check who is calling me.
4. This only happens with my brother not me:)
5. I think no one has ever made me doubt myself more than my parents. I have very low self esteem and they make me so so insecure. Commenting on my body, the clothes I wear, the songs I listen to, my face? everything.
6. If I talk about my mental health, they'll literally laugh at me. If i try to tell them what they're doing wrong, they always say, "we're your parents, we have the right to do this."
7. I get that they have problems too but just blaming everything on me makes it better somehow for them?
Parents may WANT the best for their children but they don't KNOW what's best for their children.
I always get compared to my cuzon and my older sisters
When I was like 3-4 I was só scared of the dark só I asked mom can u come with me she said no! I always see Things like ppl só I saw that in the dark but my mom a n d dad were like no! I don't see anything !!!!!!!
https://globalwarmingmythorfact333.blogspot.com/2024/08/the-impact-of-parental-ignorance-on.html
My mom almost killed me she took me by the neck and threw me in mud i just feel forgotten at this point:(
A couple of mins ago I was sitting on the floor and didn’t wanna stand up so my mom grabbed and pulled my hair hardly kind of pulling me so I was forced to stand up
Why do my parents invade my personal privacy
What about when they are way too strict and dont trust us and then blame and assume
I get all of these from everyone I know in my family and friends everytime I mention I did something good they don't care my friends just ignore me and listen to music on there chromebook except my dad cares hes nice.
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