Sometimes parenting can be so tough that we lose our temper over out kids. Tune into this episode as I share with you 5 tips to become a better parent without having to yell.
1. Be clear about what you control and what you do not control.
2. Focus on maintaining a calm voice, calm face and calm body.
3. Remember that children always have choices.
4. Separate the emotion from the discipline.
5. Remember your job as a parent.
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Dr. Paul Jenkins
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I feel sorry to my child to my self as well… My kid is not following sometimes , to the point that i need to repeat my self and wothout folowing my errands that the time i get frustrated and yelling , once i yelled my kid will follow.
Im yelling because my kids destroy my hous every time i turn around, and im sick of it.. 5 kids, 4 left at home im a single mother whos burnt tf out.
Really interesting advice to try… thanks for that. However, your closing advice that a parents' job is to "love your child no matter what," that is such a dangerous way to conclude the video. The word, the emotion, the definition surrounding LOVE, especially in our confused culture, is interpreted so differently across the parenting spectrum. The job of a parent certainly does require you to love your child, AND also requires the responsibility to teach your child, guide your child, reward your child, discipline your child… and so much more.
Does this work on kids with adhd??
You can use your talents as a parent, seeking the best means of becoming successful in your job of promoting your children's well-being.
What higher calling is there than to be a "good loving parent," more especially if you take as your role model UNCONDITIONAL LOVE which is entirely directed at growth, nutrition of mind and body, healing of mind and body, regeneration of mind and body, protection in every form and the fulfillment of every need of mind, emotions and body—all within a system of Law and Order.
As a parent—have you measured up to UNCONDITIONAL LOVE?
Think of families where emotional and mental abuse is rife. This is an abhorrent use of "mental power." It rebounds to the abuser in many, many ways—ill-health, sickness, addiction, depression and loss of self-esteem.
However, do not use your brains, intellect, insight, knowledge and education as a platform from which to criticize, judge or condemn others who do not measure up to your own standards of efficiency or goodness in any area of your life.
At the same time—since to criticize, judge and condemn is as natural as breathing to the selfhood/personality (humanhood)—do not attempt to deny your perceptions of what might be improved. To do so is to deny the reality of the evolutionary process.
yes
What about toddlers?
Like a 1 and 2 year old
"Be careful who you trust" 🍁🍁🍁
You are so great. Wow ❤. Thank you
My favorite parenting video, thank you!
Lots of great ways to disciple (discipline) or teach our children. But one thing that parents of really little ones could use is how to get toddlers to hear you. My grandson is two years old and a dynamo with the attention span of a gnat. So he NEVER hears you because he's always looking for the next 'thing' to go to.
Even when we were right in his face, lovingly trying to explain how to cross his ankles so he wouldn't fall off the ride that his mom was pushing him on, he wasn't listening, but looking to the teeter totters/swings/monkey bars…… I tried just taking his little face in my hands to bring his attention back so that he'd listen and I'm pretty sure he thought I was just a nuisance.
His dad is diagnosed with ADHD and my daughter is starting to wonder if her first born is the same. How do we help him right from the beginning. Would love to hear whatever you could share in this regard. We're already starting to worry about his future teacher/student interactions by the way.
Thank you for this motivation. I’m the worst parent but starting today I’ll practice becoming a better parent
Wow
Thank you…very informative
I don’t control my child or her feelings 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Love this. Thank you it’s so helpful
My 33 year old adult child can still trigger me. I wish this were not true. I will try out these ideas.
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