How to Deal with Fighting Parents

I am 30 years old. I moved out over 10 yeras ago. My parents still argue. My mom calls me and cries. Then I talk with my dad on the phone and he's also in a bad mood. I feel like in kindergarten. How do I sign them for couples therapy?

I’m literally crying rn because there fighting

I honestly lost all hope in my parents and I’m just here with them because I need there money so I can have a good education and get a job and live away from them. I don’t care if they get divorced or anything.

Honestly, it suckes the life out of me, whenever I am somewhere else I feel better, as soon as I get "home" my parents will scream at each other in the next hours either way, and I just feel empty, I don't even care anymore, I just want to dissappear to another place. I feel bad for them honestly, but I spend my 17 years talking with them about it, reasonable and calm enough to know, it won't change eitherways, they even come at me with this when I try to stop them, so thanks a lot /j. I feel like my hearing got worse too, because they are yelling very loudly and I started having trouble hearing people talking with me, or maybe it's a problem because I tend to zone out and daydream sometimes. Man, I even dropped out of school because I couldn't concentrate on studying at home, next time rather go to a friend or a damn forest to study. I am honestly just done, I feel like they fight more than they talk and are both just miserable, I feel bad for them, but it's not my job to fix their relationship

I’m currently downstairs hiding from my parents. My mom is from Japan and my dad is from America, and my mother just told my older sister (I was eavesdropping) that she will be going back to Japan. They just finished a screaming match which started a few hours ago when my dad said something about statistics proving that men are smarter than women, but I wasn’t really listening so I don’t know what happened or who’s side to take. I know I shouldn’t be listening to my parents fight, but it’s really hard not to when they are yelling at the top of their lungs. They fought last week as well, and my mom said that she was going back then as well. My thoughts are so disorganized, my heart is beating really fast, and I’m shaking right now. I don’t know what to do. I want to live the rest of my life with both parents. This sucks.

"Sometimes i get the shivers too…. comfort me too fellow people"😭😭

At this point my parents arguing is normal and i even walk between them just get a drink

At 11.30 pm my mother and my father is fighting I didn't know this slept after some time so much noise in my house and I woke up and saw my mom and dad was fighting my father beated my mom more mad inside her mouth so much blood she was crying and I was also crying I don't know what I want to do and at she went to hospital. I am stuying 10th standard my mind full of yesterday's fight I can't study with free. In side my mother's mouth they have Stablered 😭😫😥I don't like to sit in my house I want to go some were😥

I’m so so late but my mom just ran out crying because my dad said she wasn’t parenting right

I don't wanna drag u down with my sad story of my parents…but at least we can learn a lesson from this,that we need to be so careful of whome we're chosing to spend the rest of our lives with

I was in a very traumatic experience with mh parents

I’m literally scared if my dad just comes to my moms room and just beats her. This is just my life. I’m getting used to it.

I just want to take my sister away from where my parents fight I hate it when both fight

im numb to this 💀

I'm writing this right after my parents had a heated argument. After having a hectic day, when I reached home I just wanted to relax a bit. I had shower and was sitting in my room and suddenly I heard my dad yelling at my mom. I always used to keep my door closed while they had arguments before but I decided not to do it today. I was listening to what they were arguing about and it was because of one silly thing. It has always been that way since I can remember from my childhood. Their argument always gives me anxiety and later depression but today I just had severe anxiety attack. It felt like all the anxiety I felt as a child and teenager just came back all at once to me today. Right now my body is shaking after the attack. I'm angry at myself for not saying things in a order.

I don't have any friends to share what I'm going through and I never had any as kid. I have always buried my feelings inside me and now I'm just used to it but I can't take it anymore. I'm tired of this. I'm not able to concentrate on anything. When I talk about this with my elder brother he tells me to ignore it. How can I ignore it when it is affecting me mentally, emotionally and physically? The reason I don't have friends is because my parents don't like me socialising with anyone. Idk how am I surviving.

When I look at other families in my neighborhood, they seem to look happy together. And I don't have to go far to look for examples for a happy family, my brother's wife has a lovely family and they have an incredible bond between them.

Because of my parents arguing and yelling at each other, I'm jealous and angry of those couples who have brilliant connection and love. And i better not say anything about my relatives. They are the worst. That's it.

I don't have anyone else to share what I'm going through. The situation in which I'm right now is quite weird.

So basically I'm 22 years old and I'm currently unemployed. It's been over 1 and half year since I got graduated from engineering. I have given many interviews and got rejected everytime. So I decided to take up a course to build a skill which would take 6 months to complete. Initially this course was taking place offline so it was great for that period. But then the people in institute said that they'll be taking classes online which means I don't have any reason to go out. For few weeks I was attending classes from my home and everyday i had to hear my parents yelling at each other. So I decided to lie to my parents that the institute will be taking classes offline. So since that day, I'm going out for 6-7 hours and traveling to different parts of the city to just stay away from my parents and have some peace at some random park and attending classes in different cafes.

I had tried to speak with my parents about what I'm feeling after they had their argument in the past but instead they understanding about my feelings, they scolded me.

Now I feel like the way out for me from this forever is to wait until my course is over so that I can get a job, get financially independent and leave the house or convince my parents for further education in foreign University or I have a deep interest in Air Force and join the academy and I can always remain away from my parents forever.

Arguing going on currently 😢
I am exhausted

My parents are thinking about getting a divorce tight after Christmas, im just so sad, i feel so bad, my dad is yelling while my mom is crying.

My parents fight so much I almost start crying

I want to die or leave this home…my parents always fight shout..i cant live 😖😥

thanks for helping. it helps a lot my mom is crying bc of my dad and the fight alwasy starts for dad. tyms so much im gonna sub to you it really helps a lot

My dad is fighting with my mom things she is cheating on my dad with another guy

For me it’s a few days 1:08

My parents argue every time we go an a vacation it is so annoying😢

My parents fought 1 hour earlier and I ran to my room and cried. Now my mother just left the house and I'm really scared that she doesn't come back tonight or get a divorce….Lets hope this kind of fight will turn alright in the whole world and for me……