In this YouTube video, Dr. Jordan Peterson explains how to discipline children without resorting to shouting and fighting. He suggests two principles for effective parenting: “minimum necessary rules” and “minimal necessary force.” The former is about choosing the essential rules and avoiding excessive ones that can drive out respect for good ones. The latter involves using the least amount of force to enforce the rules, depending on the child’s personality.
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I’m glad we’re going in the right direction with our son & daughter
Not surprising that few parents ask their kids about what they felt about how they were raised.
I would love to hear Jordan discuss the God of War (Norse saga) from the perspective of parenting.
I genuinely cannot understand how anyone doesn't like this guy
He's smart, he's articulate, he's hilarious, he's authentic and relatable
What's not to like
6:01 – "Who are you to impose your rules on your child?"
"Well, I'm his parent."
"But what gives you that right?"
"…It isn't exactly my right, it is my responsibility."
and, my favourite part: "It's not like I want to put my child on the steps…It's not pleasurable. I don't want the kid to be a squalling, wretched reprobate that everyone hates."
I often tell my kids that this is not fun for me, when I have to enforce a rule. That it is for their benefit, not mine.
Tour around the US telling other people how to do it- thanks Jordan!
Let’s normalize parents enjoying being parents again please, I have 5 kids and I think they’re pretty awesome. Nothing is better than being a mother honestly no job has ever made me feel as loved and or gave me purpose more than being a wife and mom ❤
i just got a male kitty and im realizing i will be an absulute awful father so here I am
Do you think It might be better to teach the child to breath and in that peace they are usually naturally a caring human
They have to understand the game of adults and how to work with it but to release that battle as much as possible, good hearing cheers
We could never tolerate lying or cruelty, so I guess those were the basic rules for our children. The other aspect though was that there was always the possibility to move forward from any disagreement or wrong doing, through acknowledgement, understanding and forgiveness. Mistakes are part of the learning process.
Thanks!
You can do that because you are the responsible parent. Great insights ❤
His wife is so respectful, she had opportunities to interrupt him while he was speaking to share something but she decided to let him talk all he wanted without one interruption because the question was for him and she saw no necessity to add anything else. She is so respectful and professional
Not relatable, If your son stayed on the stairs, that meant he was not rebellious.
I like this, great advice!
Yessir
christian way
I don't wanna know how many parents raise their children only for self-gratification.
While this is an intellectual perspective if you play honestly with kids that makes them and you giggle and laugh regularly those kids will be more than happy to do as you say. Just make sense whatever you do say.
Why do people have children?. Are they cattle?
So when do we start the time out technique? At what age that is considered affective and without being too strict or abusing their childhood?
You can also think about it this way, when it comes to why you should discipline your children.
Someone will correct their bad behaviors. That is inevitable.
Who will do it is now the choice before you.
If you won't correct their misbehavior, society will, and it will be far more harsh in the ways that the correction takes place.
It is better that it be you, the parents who have far more love and understanding to give that child than anyone else is likely to offer. Versus, some stranger, law enforcement officer, teacher, babysitter, etc.
So, choice wisely on who will sculpt and mold your children into fuctioning adults.
You can avoid a lot of pain and misery for your children in their lifetime, if you would just love them enough to correct their bad behaviors.
00:01 Mindestens erforderliche Regeln, um die Einhaltung guter Regeln aufrechtzuerhalten.
01:37 Förderung von Freundlichkeit und Freundschaft mit Geschwistern
03:03 Die Durchsetzung von Regeln hängt vom Kind ab
04:26 Zu den wirkungsvollsten Disziplinarmaßnahmen gehört es, Kindern, die sich schlecht benehmen, eine Auszeit zu geben.
05:44 Als Eltern liegt es in Ihrer Verantwortung, Ihrem Kind Regeln aufzuerlegen.
07:08 Der Einsatz von minimal notwendiger Gewalt und Auszeiten als wirksame Strategie bei der Kindererziehung.
08:43 Wutanfälle bei Kindern verstehen und bewältigen
10:00 Schaffen Sie eine friedliche und harmonische Umgebung zu Hause
I LOVE the Petersons. All of them! They have been and still are doing great things in our sin sick world!
Please Dr. Peterson, write a book solely on parenting. You've changed my life for the better and you're helping me be a better person and mother. You're the best mind of our time and I thank God for you and your family.
Why am I watching?
I am just 21 unmarried and don't have kids
Thank You
Your videos have made a real impact on me.
food love and stability are what a child needs and how a parent conducts themselves not with rules but with honorable conduct that can be immolated even by very young children. Most children only see their parents on the way home from daycare or as they're being put to bed.
a lot can be both crazy
Isn't this advice a root for the kid to start been good just when he wants to get benefits kind of behavior?
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