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I wish i had that. My parents dont give a shit. Like they’re way too relaxed. If my brother doesn’t do his homework brush his teeth practice piano or literally get up from the computer theyre like so what we cant force him hes grown. Im like no hes not hes still a child and you need to treat him like one not the way you treated me like an adult and acted as if it was a compliment
Basically just do the opposite of what you are likely to find in California.
Yesss as a former child, I can confirm😂
YES. 10000% YES!
Yes, well sorry Mayim I was a Drill Sergeant, however I raised bold proud and beautiful young women one who is pursuing a PhD in education one who achieved a BA in Astrophysics and currently works in cyber security and achieved a NASA scholarship.
Time, diligence, effort, control, consideration, trust and honest communication…..ALL THE TIME.
Its exhausting, you still screw up, but its SO worth it ❤
My main goal in life is to create a household I can foster children I.
Problem is most parents think they can rent structure by getting others or technology to co-parent their kids.
Parenting is hard and it takes so much of our time, time that we are told we should be doing better things with. Children have been left to grow themselves up for a while now. It a tough situation for even parents who want to be present in their kids life, especially single parents but I've noticed as well most adults dont enjoy spending quality time with kids, so even kids with many family members around them are being neglected.
I see that this world the way its run is anti kids, and kids know from very young that they dont belong anywhere that they are a burden..and thats part of the reason they become monsters .. its better to be feared than to be unloved after trying to fit in.
Wish my SIL would understand this, the lack of discipline/structure is ridiculous, her kids run riot, we can't stand to be around them, and she complains about how much work they are 🤦♀️
AMEN!! I’ve been teaching this for nearly 40 years. Schedules, rewards, consistency, consequences, meal plans. Literally for EVERYTHING…morning, school, car, shopping, bedtime, etc. once they know how they are expected to act they become remarkably well behaved. And NEVER give in!
I wish mine knew this.. said the latchkey generation.
heartwarming ❤
excellent role model to young dads who feel misplaced by kids
Very well said! This notion, however, stands or falls on the assumption that one should not be having children unless they are ready for all the sacrifices and hard work. Otherwise, get one of those pillows that hug you back and set up a retirement fund instead. Unfortunately, many parents are just so entitled and lazy nowadays that they basically let their kids run amok while priding themselves on raising these children in a stress-free environment while making the society pay the price for their lack of willingness to put on a rubber.
Don’t forget to factor in how patriarchal white supremacy affects Black Women’s ability to be an in charge parent.
Same applies to dogs! They need to know that the human is the leader otherwise they’ll take charge by default, but they really don’t want to.
Thank you for saying this. It takes so much time! I have 5, we homeschool, we have routines, do chores together, everyone lives here so everyone helps. Been at it for 13 years and counting.
That's how I raise my dogs!
YESSS 🙌🏻
Yes..they need rules. They don't need Mommy to be their "friend" (the friendship will happen once they are grown)
I am the most unstructured human that I know (thank you ADHD). My son was loved and supported but not in a "structured" environment. He was a bit dramatic sometimes but generally a well behaved and loving child. On Friday he'll be graduating with a BS in Business and a minor in mechanical drawing and I couldn't be any prouder! Despite our best efforts to screw them up, our children usually manage to grow into successful adults.
Now I've forgotten my point…Hey look! A squirrel! 🐿️🐿️
TRUUUUUUUUUULY
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Yup. Very true.
Right
I always felt secure when I was a kid because my parents did everything so well but as I grew up they became more and more honest and even though that's a great thing for most people for me that kinda destroyed how I saw them. They were no heroes anymore who knew everything and it hurt pretty bad.
Speaking pure truth!
I like the way I was raised. Out the door, come back when the street light turn on. Don't get into trouble or their will be…trouble. I had the freedom to grow and learn but the deterrent from doing bad things. But, no matter how you raise your kids the most important thing on guiding them on a right path is their friends. You can be the best parent in the world but if their friends are terrible then they will have more effect on them then you will.
Totally true!
Be present!
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