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Your worth is not dictated by anyone else, especially not someone who is a) trying to tear you down, b) just rude or c) hasn’t paid enough attention to you in order to correctly gender you (unless you are not presenting as clearly aiming at male or female, cause then it’s kinda your fault) a b and c aren’t worth your time. Instead of screaming go buy yourself a gift and feel happy.
Most kind people take their best guess. if I guess wrong, I didn't misgender you, I made a mistake. I guessed wrong. A polite correction will be met with courtesy. Streight or Trans before you scream at me tighten your shoelaces.
What the hell is this? Are you a man or woman?
To be honest we don’t care to play a part of your delusions. We have too much going on in our lives like kids, cares, hobbies, husband, etc… all we want is not to be dragged into drama or have our kids indoctrinated.
Did I mention I love you ❤️!!
I wish I could meet you and have lunch. You're very likable.
God bless you!
Being a Trans is already misgendering
It’s so hard these days, with all the diversity of gender identities, that everyone is literally left guessing what you want to be called just by looking at your appearance. 20 years ago if you dressed like a man I called you sir and if you dressed like a woman I called you ma’am, but you can’t do that these days. So everyone is just left guessing what you wish to be called and sometimes we guess wrong.
Nice to see you growing 💗🎉🎉 God bless
Oh Alexis..you are just a breath of fresh air in this crazy world..I can’t believe you would ever be misgendered you gorgeous lady xx
Where are you from,? You're very pretty.
I appreciate this attitude. As a Christian Catholic high schooler with strong convictions people in the trans community were some of the most horrendous, vicious, and mean to me. I forgive them, and still deal with insecurities because of how horrible they were to me. I’ve always been the super outgoing and kind kid in the class, I just have different beliefs I’m willing to change if you can answer my most sincere questions.
But you are a dude guy a male you will never be a female, woman ect
Youre just so gorgeous with or without makeup. Unlike me. I look dead without makeup 💋
Genuinely, you are a well rounded human being
Ok so my husband is a Cisgendered male…very male, except he has beautiful, silky, curly, and long hair. He is frequently called Ma'am….sometimes it's meant to be a slur. He ignores it for the most part because he feels it says more about the person than it does about him. Also if it is a mistake he doesn't want to make the person feel awful. Haters are going to continue to spew hatred and no amount of vitriol will change their ugly minds. It makes them feel vindicated when you react from a place of hurt and anger. Deny them the satisfaction and the escalation. Ruin their day instead of allowing them to ruin yours.
Personally I don't care what gender or sexual orientation people are. What I do care about is having a persons gender and sexual orientation put in my face! I don't want to see anyone no matter what they feel they are telling me and trying to force me to be involved with it. I don't share my sexual orientation I don't behave sexually towards my husband in public and I do NOT want to see other people behaving sexually in front of me or my kids. Keep it in your bedroom.
Absolutely
Life will get much easier when you learn to stop caring what others think.
The principle of how you behave no matter what the situation is all that matters
You're so emotionally healthy it's amazing.
I find your attitude makes you so feminine and it’s part of why I see you as a woman. When I see trans women yelling and getting in peoples’ faces when they’re misgendered, it feels like their energy is so masculine that I can’t see them as women. It’s just instinctive to me. It feels like the scary, violent reaction that some men have when a woman tells them no. I never considered it before watching your videos but for me gendering someone is more than the physical appearance. You feel like another woman to me when you are talking.
I don't know if I can get this out of my heart and brain properly but here goes….if everyone acted and thought and cared as much as you do, there would be no issues! Yelling screaming 'you're a bigot' because someone got it wrong but if asked which they would like you get screamed at for that as well or the sports n bathroom thing is a whole other can of worms but I've been watching you for a bit now and imo you ARE a woman someone like that jeffrey person will never be a woman or whatever he claims to be, there's an enormous difference between you and some of the other trans ppl! Hope it makes sense! Here this just came to mind……You hun, you have the heart of a woman!
I admire your maturity and common sense so much (not to mention your style). You are so right to say it's better not to place all of your self worth on others. You know who you are. And, what you are is wonderful. I'd like to take a minute to talk about the difficulty I have sometimes. As an older American raised with very Southern parents, I was taught to say yes ma'am no ma'am, yes sir, no sir. We were corrected if we didn't. So please understand, we aren't being mean. At least I'm not. I'm being polite with a split second flash of gender information taken in at that instant. I'm doing my best to remember not to say ma'am and sir, but it's the difference between more than 60 years of culture teaching one way versus a couple of years to undo it. Please know my main thing I mean when I speak that way is to show manners and politeness that were drilled into me as a very young child and reinforced through most of my adult life. I believe everyone has a right to live their life as they choose as long as they harm none (including themselves). Please be patient with me as I navigate the new manners I'm working hard to learn. Good journeys to everyone.
Legitimate question here. When someone obviously looks like a man or woman, what does the trans person expect to be called? Is everyone supposed to be psychic? I’m a bio woman and even I have been misgendered. I simply politely correct them. I don’t get upset because, well it’s stupid to get upset. I have a vio female friend who is beautiful and obviously a woman. However, her voice is very masculine and no one would expect her to be a female if they only heard her voice. She doesn’t get upset at all. Rather she’s embarrassed by her voice.
So the question is are we supposed to be psychic when someone is obviously male/female (or sounds male or female) and we misgender them mistakenly?
You need a platform to show people how transitioning should be. You focus on everything that comes with being transgender. You did your research before you did anything to change your identity. God bless you and Liam for being who you are and loving yourself for it.
Even the smallest comment can really affect someone and their actions.
It’s sad to see you upset. I think in whatever we do, it’s good to take a step back and see another person’s opinion. I also get that when a trans person is aggressive it must come from a place of frustration and pain, but it doesn’t help tensions.
The TQ community is MISSING THE POINT
The agenda it would seem by the TQ community is to completely and utterly destroy everyone’s identity replace it with their idea and labels that fit them regardless who it harms Yet when XX XY speak up and say wait you don’t have a right to disrespect us TQ say you want acceptance yet what’s becoming apparent is they just want to tear everyone and thing down and replace it with their labels and ideology The XX XY LGB and Heterosexual communities must stand up and speak out against this
Alexis, if the politicized and shrieking arm of the trans gender community conducted themselves as you do, there would be no problems. Thank you.
The world would be a much better place, if everybody would be as intelligent and sensitive as you…and of course as beautiful.
But you DO look like a woman, I wouldn't have known any difference if I'd not watched your videos. Some of the screaming banshees look like the gender they were born as…. How are we Sposed to know???
The funny think here is that Alexis is talking and reasoning in the wisdom, patience and compassion of the Divine Femenine that gets what it wants trough the honey pot theory: sweetness attracts better.
❤
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