i was spanked and “disciplined” when i was younger and trust me, that was the ONLY thing that worked. there has to be some fear in order to get respect
whenever i get in trouble my parents blame me saying that i was the one out of line and that i think im funny. For example, one time i got a detention, for a bad sub report, so the story was that we had a chill sub in english, and he allowed us to sit wherever. So i asked to sit next to my friend who asked me to help her and I said sure as long as she helped me study for the math test coming up. Instantly, the teachers aid came up to me, told me to go ‘sit back in my assigned seat, right now’ and i complied and said ok i will, so i grabbed my stuff and sat back into my seat. My friend asked the sub again to allow me to sit next to her bc she genuinely needed help. The sub said yes, and the teacher aid heard that. I sat there, nothing happened. Later, about a week later, i got a detention for a ‘bad sub report, disrespecting the teacher, and disrupting the classroom. I went and talked to my teacher and brought up how the sub, who is assigned to be in charge of the classroom, said it was ok. And I remember checking with the sub aswell, so the teacher aid wrote down her own sub report and turned that in with the sub’s orginal report. I explained and my teacher said that he wasn’t there and that he didn’t know if i was lying or not which really made me mad, but i sucked it up not to get into more trouble. Now, i told my mom every little detail and her response was ‘why do u feel responsible to help people, if she needed help she needed to ask, same with you, why do you think ur so cool by getting a detention for not listening to the sub’ i got so mad and told my friend everything, she said she was sorry and that it was her fault, and i explained to her that it was not her fault nor my fault, just something that couldnt be altered, but my perspective on my mom changed, bc she blamed me for what i never did, so yeah
My parents think gentlemen parenting is a joke. I wish they would have done this so much more calm. They never let me express my feeling without telling me I was arguing. It gets so frustrating you just explode or stop talking to them all together
Yeah given a legitimate reason helps development. Having the authoritarian lifestyle of "because i said so" "my house my rules" gives no reason why I should respect you if you cannot respect me.
Kids need to be disciplined and spanked if needed. I don't support abuse. Look how terribly violent the kids from gen alpha are becoming, many are beating up their teachers and fighting with other kids, they can't stay still without to their phones to listen and do what they are told, they act like grown adults cursing and don't do their classwork and homework. Teachers are quitting at an alarming rate it's very sad. Gentle parenting is not giving great results it's making kids ultra sensitive, gender confused, entitled demanding and disrespectful. Parents need to have great communication, be loving compassionate and also be firm not soft and passive, we have to teach these kids to respect adults, elders, teachers, peers, everyone and to do what it's told to be responsible that and to deal with consequences when they do bad things. We are shaping these kids to be responsible and useful adults to society. It's ok for parents to say NO. We are not their buddy, we are their parents with rules and they must follow.
Y'all have opened my eyes and helped me thru a lot I use the pillow with my daughter and I love it 😍 and your parenting skills are 100 y'all may not think so but your an amazing mom and Tina is also amazing 🤩 thank you both for y'all videos ❤
I think that most arguments with kids (especially teens) could be solved like this. Saying "because I said so" when they ask why they can't do something will get you no where, give them a real reason.
Dude, like people need to understand that if you don't know how to handle kids properly, you shouldn't be allowed to have them at all. If you cant talk to your child like they're human and instead you yell at them and degrade them thinking you're doing a good job, why did you decide to have kids in the first place???
this. my relationship with my father, who yells and threatens to hurt me, vs my relationship with my mother, who just has a conversation with me when i do something wrong. one, i feel comfortable talking about my problems with. the other i wish to go non-contact with. beating your kid into submission isnt discipline. its abuse. coming from a kid who WAS beaten into submission. if it happened to you and you think you “turned out fine,” youre wrong.
Gentle parenting involves setting clear boundaries and expectations for children while also showing empathy and understanding. It's about guiding them with love and respect, rather than resorting to harsh punishments. Permissive parenting, on the other hand, often involves letting children do whatever they want without consequences, which can lead to a lack of structure and discipline.
The dress this young lady is wearing is so inappropriate and distracting please cover up these young women 😮 or at least make sure the dress is not see through she’s a child!!
Did u teach at a dance school?
when i ask my mom why she doesnt explain- she just says “because i said so”
Well that is better then how my parents say no and how they gentle parent
Bro I wish my parents was gental
i swear my momma once said the same exact thing to me once 😭
i was spanked and “disciplined” when i was younger and trust me, that was the ONLY thing that worked. there has to be some fear in order to get respect
whenever i get in trouble my parents blame me saying that i was the one out of line and that i think im funny. For example, one time i got a detention, for a bad sub report, so the story was that we had a chill sub in english, and he allowed us to sit wherever. So i asked to sit next to my friend who asked me to help her and I said sure as long as she helped me study for the math test coming up. Instantly, the teachers aid came up to me, told me to go ‘sit back in my assigned seat, right now’ and i complied and said ok i will, so i grabbed my stuff and sat back into my seat. My friend asked the sub again to allow me to sit next to her bc she genuinely needed help. The sub said yes, and the teacher aid heard that. I sat there, nothing happened. Later, about a week later, i got a detention for a ‘bad sub report, disrespecting the teacher, and disrupting the classroom. I went and talked to my teacher and brought up how the sub, who is assigned to be in charge of the classroom, said it was ok. And I remember checking with the sub aswell, so the teacher aid wrote down her own sub report and turned that in with the sub’s orginal report. I explained and my teacher said that he wasn’t there and that he didn’t know if i was lying or not which really made me mad, but i sucked it up not to get into more trouble. Now, i told my mom every little detail and her response was ‘why do u feel responsible to help people, if she needed help she needed to ask, same with you, why do you think ur so cool by getting a detention for not listening to the sub’ i got so mad and told my friend everything, she said she was sorry and that it was her fault, and i explained to her that it was not her fault nor my fault, just something that couldnt be altered, but my perspective on my mom changed, bc she blamed me for what i never did, so yeah
Sorry for the rant, the story is a bit long
bro my parents arent gental they never give me a reason its always”im the adult so you dont need a reason. ”
My parents think gentlemen parenting is a joke. I wish they would have done this so much more calm. They never let me express my feeling without telling me I was arguing. It gets so frustrating you just explode or stop talking to them all together
I come from drug addict parents. Videos like this are so incredibly helpful. Thank you.
Yeah given a legitimate reason helps development. Having the authoritarian lifestyle of "because i said so" "my house my rules" gives no reason why I should respect you if you cannot respect me.
I tried this on my daughter, she took advantage of it..
Thank you for sharing all the time ❤
Kids need to be disciplined and spanked if needed. I don't support abuse. Look how terribly violent the kids from gen alpha are becoming, many are beating up their teachers and fighting with other kids, they can't stay still without to their phones to listen and do what they are told, they act like grown adults cursing and don't do their classwork and homework. Teachers are quitting at an alarming rate it's very sad. Gentle parenting is not giving great results it's making kids ultra sensitive, gender confused, entitled demanding and disrespectful. Parents need to have great communication, be loving compassionate and also be firm not soft and passive, we have to teach these kids to respect adults, elders, teachers, peers, everyone and to do what it's told to be responsible that and to deal with consequences when they do bad things. We are shaping these kids to be responsible and useful adults to society. It's ok for parents to say NO. We are not their buddy, we are their parents with rules and they must follow.
If I did that when I was a child…
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Lucky they actually tell you what ya did
Y'all have opened my eyes and helped me thru a lot I use the pillow with my daughter and I love it 😍 and your parenting skills are 100 y'all may not think so but your an amazing mom and Tina is also amazing 🤩 thank you both for y'all videos ❤
I think that most arguments with kids (especially teens) could be solved like this. Saying "because I said so" when they ask why they can't do something will get you no where, give them a real reason.
Ass whoopin
A lot of parents are too lazy to explain or have a genuine conversation
OK my husband and I are expecting our first I have to older ones that are 16andv15vi realy love the Thiry
When i ask the reason my parents are like "because i said so" or "im your parent you listen to me"
Dude, like people need to understand that if you don't know how to handle kids properly, you shouldn't be allowed to have them at all. If you cant talk to your child like they're human and instead you yell at them and degrade them thinking you're doing a good job, why did you decide to have kids in the first place???
Discipline is discipline.
My parents don't even give me a reason, i just gotta do what they say ig ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ
My mom's reson….she say s she dosent have to give me a reason even if I have no clue what I did wrong
We’re the vs where’s the what people think like versus what it actually is, I just saw what it actually is
this. my relationship with my father, who yells and threatens to hurt me, vs my relationship with my mother, who just has a conversation with me when i do something wrong. one, i feel comfortable talking about my problems with. the other i wish to go non-contact with. beating your kid into submission isnt discipline. its abuse.
coming from a kid who WAS beaten into submission. if it happened to you and you think you “turned out fine,” youre wrong.
I hate this generation for their soft @$$ upbringing. That's why they're unteachable.
You go mama I agree with you 100 percent.
Gentle parenting involves setting clear boundaries and expectations for children while also showing empathy and understanding. It's about guiding them with love and respect, rather than resorting to harsh punishments. Permissive parenting, on the other hand, often involves letting children do whatever they want without consequences, which can lead to a lack of structure and discipline.
So much better than “Because I said so”!
The dress this young lady is wearing is so inappropriate and distracting please cover up these young women 😮 or at least make sure the dress is not see through she’s a child!!
99% of ppl probably grew up with I don't have to give u an answer 😭
You really proved your point with a scripted skit and willing adolescent participant. Thank you so much 🤙🏾✨
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