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These Van Life Parents are ABUSIVE





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34 thoughts on “These Van Life Parents are ABUSIVE”

  1. Speaking of discipline, my father put me and my sister (who I shared a room with) in the basement because of our room not being "clean enough.". Do you know what packing pads are? The ones used to wrap furniture in trucks so they don't get damaged? We had to use those. I bring this up because my father has done some fucked up shit.

  2. Touring around in the bus/van during summer would be cool to do, provided you have no more than 3 kids realistically. Whether these TikTok families could afford to own/rent a house & their van I’m not sure because I imagine they’re not cheap to build.

  3. I just always think about the fact that for a year or so my family had to live in a smaller flat, basically two parents, me (13) and my sisters (both 5 at the time) lived in a flat fit for a couple with no kids. What my parents did was turn the dining room into another bedroom, so that i would have a room for myself and my sisters would share a room, and guess what, my parents were the ones sleeping in the living room (which also functioned as the dining room) on the couch because they are very nice people who are incredibly selfless when it comes to their children.

  4. This one person with 3ish kids sold their house and bought a bus to live in. Welp the bus caught fire and the kids almost died with the worst kind of burns

  5. So I can’t see any child being over the age of seven and enjoying this type of lifestyle with no type of privacy. Also, I’m gonna say healthwise. (Mentality/physically) I don’t think this is very healthy. This is next to a caravan. This is a traveling caravan. Of abuse. I’m an elder millennial. I have no kids. I’m planning to leave the US far away . Far away from the abusive people that use TikTok because it’s the abusive. It’s OK if you have TikTok I’m not dinging you for having TikTok : it’s just the majority of people that use TikTok will abuse it and I can’t be near those people.

  6. When we went camping the kids ALWAYS GOT THE BEDROOM! For 2 or 5 days the kids (small children) would all sleep in the big bed together. No more than 3 and adults would take the pullout sofas 👍 teenagers count as adults and we also liked being able to make sure they STAYED IN THE TRAILER.

  7. Warching this made me question something i wasn't ready to…. Were the Wild Thornberries perhaps an inspiration for this? I mean, thinking back they were the earliest "Van Life Family" I knew of. Aahh!

  8. If this was a 2 million dollar prevo that rock stars use, look them up, super cool. They stack full-size bunks with tv screens. However, I'm smelling a future Netflix doc of how she really acts after something unfortunate happens. Stop reality tving ur kids. I also took my kids camping for up to 10 days in a pull behind 26 footer. that number was enough days.

  9. You'd think if you decided to travel with our kid, you'd have like… First you won't do it, but at least like only 2 of them max? It's already non-private enough, but like 8 in a bus or smth?
    I can't sleep well with people around me- poor fucking kid

  10. I would give up my privacy and comfort for the privacy and comfort of my child. I don’t understand what’s going on.

    Not to mention, just putting your children’s entire life online without them consenting it’s messed up

  11. I'm so glad you brought up the class issue here, there is a huge difference between choosing to live in a situation that hurts your kids, and having to live in a situation like this. Further, the quality of life issue. I think that parents should be able to be themselves, live a good life. Being a parent, choosing to bring kids into the world, you have to make sacrifices, end of story. Want to live like this, great don't subject children to it.

  12. honestly…. i think to call them "abusive" is a bit of an exaggeration. But…. definitively a lack of consideration. If you had so many kids that 1 or more has to sleep on the floor? I say 2 things either have the kids take turns so that no kid has to sleep on the floor more than once/week (and heck even have the parents take a turn on the floor) OR…. (since not having so many kids in the first place wasnt an option) how about…. just not make your kids homeless in the first place?

  13. This “parents get the best option” is so real. I have a rich aunt who has absolutely zero shame in admitting she picks the best options to her and the worse ones for her kids and her guests. One time she took the whole family on a trip and rented a cabin, and when we distributed the spaces, she didn’t want us to have any say in it and just went “Ok Steve and I stay in the master bedroom, we have to put all the luggage somewhere so we’ll use the bunks in the second bedroom for that and the kids can share the other bunk, Simone (my mom) can have the futon we brought, and then mom and Val (me) can have the couches”.

    My mom and her yelled at each other for the whole night because apparently the fuckin luggage had more right to a bed than sweet old grandma. We also found out the ginormous bed in the master bedroom was two huge beds put together and she was just getting both to herself and her husband while three people weren’t even sleeping on beds. In the end they separated that second big bed for my grandma, left the luggage in the living room and my mom and I got the bunks. But not without a lot of yelling and crying from my aunt.

    She also used to not let the kids sit at a table to eat. Not even the table with us, just a table period. They had to eat on the ground. I know that’s normal in some cultures, but it’s not our case, that’s just weird. She only backed down when she tried to make me, who was 15 at the time, eat on the ground with the kids, because according to her I was also a child and children don’t sit at the table.

  14. 11:30 what sucks is I have an aunt whos like this and if my cousin asked her to not record her punishment for nearly the whole world to see, and started freaking out because my aunt said no, my aunt would have extended her punishment time or made it worse.

  15. This would be the same as a small apartment or house. When I was 5 I shared a bunk bed with my sibling in the living room. It wasn’t necessary as there was a second bedroom, it’s just the way it was by choice. 🤷‍♀️

  16. Summary: If you want to have a van life, DONT. HAVE. KIDS. They derseve a normal upbringing and decide how they want to live out their life based on a constant variable(aka: A HOUSE)

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