100% accurate. My mother was abusive screaming and hitting but when someone came to the door she turned it off light a light switch. She had complete control over her behavior. When I begged her to stop s treating she’d wail that she couldn’t as “it’s the only thing that makes me feel good.”
From childhood I always hate her because she is so backward after i become educated and become adult she was so encouraging but when i finish my study she start to shout at me and always say bad things about me like– you are nothing, in your age people can do anything, in your age she was so compairing about house hold work to other children and she never accept her mistake she is that kind of person if we sit and she is working own her own she would scream if I work you have to work as well as me you can't sleep she used to wake up in the early morning like 5 which I can't wake up that early like a person how can be like her??? Even when i move out for job i was just needing some little money from her but she gets more angry I can't never understand her and she is never happy with her life and she is always talks about less money less money even though i have needs😢 she always use the word useless always stay in my feet think like me and this kind of behavior makes me so difficult with her because of that even I don't talk to her 😢😢😢😢
In my growing area she demotivate me that much that i have to cry infront of my colleagues😢😢 she is unhappy with her life always she can't manage work but she even don't want to hear what is the main problm in me.
Mere case mae toh mujhe yahi nahi pata ki meri mummy narcissistic hai ya extra caring..childhood se srif padha hi allowed hai ….baki sab not allowed,annual function not allowed,sports not allowed … participate karna toh chore hi do jaake attend bhi karlu toh vo bhi baadi baat thi, friend b'day party not allowed ,friends ke sath ghumne jana ya park jaana not allowed,school trip not allowed……even akele ghar ke bahar nikalna not allowed…. college bhi srif exam dene jaati hu ….vo bhi mummy ke sath mummy reception pe wait karti hai …..top not allowed only kurti allowed….phone mila hai but facebook ,insta,not allowed….. youtube pe hi chup chap ke todha mann bahela leti hu….yeh unko nahi pata hai …….ghumne jane ka bahut shauk hai….koi park hi leja le toh itni khushi hoti hai jaise swarg mae hu…..jaha bhi jana hai srif parents ke sath …makeup not allowed , aaj tak kajal stick ko touch bhi nahi kiya………..once i remeber that mere periods miss ho gaye thae toh she ask me that kahi mae pregnant toh nahi hu in a very bad tone but when she knows that my hemoglobin is low then she takes care of me……ek baat acchi hai ki mujhe padhne dete hai…aur govt job ke exam dene bhi dete hai😂
My mom found out I did sh. Then she found a text thread between me and my friend where I was talking about her behavior. When we all sat down to talk about everything, she only put input on the fact I had talked about her. What’s the more serious topic; sh, or talking about your mother?
My mother did all of this and more but what mostly affected me was the forced drowning in freezing showers and the grabbing my face with one hand and lifting me by it to scream blood murder directly at me.
The suck things is when you go outside and put smile face and people think you are happy person with good family:hey you smile today wow you really have a good parents Me:WTF just because iam smile doesnt mean iam happy you a*****le,you think iam always happy with my parents i never communicate with my parents, so dont think iam happy with my parents,cause you dont know what ive been through with them!!!!
I once asked her to be kinder and gentler to me like she always did with other people. She didn't even know what she should do. She just kept saying that she didn't know what to do. Felt like i asked too much…
When i hawe my friend's are with me shes so kind… But when im alone it's a diffrent story.. When my mom's friend's are over i just stare at the ground deppressed and i beg them to not go they yous't care abt how ur grades are and how u look my mom say's im fat witch rlly hurts me and makes me wanna h!ng myself…..😭
I can so relate to this bcoz my MOM is the same. I work my ass off bought a house for her and yet I m the bad person just bcoz I want to marry someone I love. She can't see things from my perspective to she thinks m immature to handle things I mean how you can say that to your own child know she does every possible thing just for her family and she will not utter a word to my brother who is 30 years old not earning a single penny yet I m the bad person. Yes she behaves like ohh I love my daughter when the doors are closed how ungrateful I am just bcoz she gave birth I gave the new life when we were almost homeless
My mom will go and hamg out with my DADS side of the family and on our way home, talk shit about MY DADS FAMILY in front of me, my brothers, and my dad, This happens all the time no matter who she was with
The second part is 100% true. I had a surgery & I was in so much pain. I could not get up and walk. But, she created a whole situation about herself and told everyone that her back hurts. I was expected to cook food for myself while my stitches were still there. Thankfully our neighbour helped me & gave me food for few days when my own parents left me all alone at home for her ‘backache’. When they returned, she had a huge fight with me and tried to hit me while I was still in pain.
I love my mum so much, but it’s sad to arrive at a point where I feel better without her in my life ! It’s sad to feel better and healthier without someone you Love😔 But I choose myself for once in my life and the cost of inner peace it worth it!
You must’ve known mine. She would actually get after people who tried to come to my rescue. “Don’t come into my house and tell me how to raise my child”! “If you think you can do a better job, he’s all yours”!
My step mother always does this as a child she did this to me I grew up and still as an adult like the other day I was around my family and found out one of my family members passed away just the other day and when I was speaking to my family members my step mother touched my arm going to do the pinching thing she does I looked straight at her like I don't think so I'm grieving my family passed away
True. My mother is one.
This video made me cry to the highest peak. She is the reason I am suicidal and she is the reason I hate my life
100% accurate. My mother was abusive screaming and hitting but when someone came to the door she turned it off light a light switch. She had complete control over her behavior. When I begged her to stop s treating she’d wail that she couldn’t as “it’s the only thing that makes me feel good.”
Just 3 things ? There s a lot
A narcissistic mother lies and lies and lies. But you are the only one – so everyone thinks you're a liar
From childhood I always hate her because she is so backward after i become educated and become adult she was so encouraging but when i finish my study she start to shout at me and always say bad things about me like– you are nothing, in your age people can do anything, in your age she was so compairing about house hold work to other children and she never accept her mistake she is that kind of person if we sit and she is working own her own she would scream if I work you have to work as well as me you can't sleep she used to wake up in the early morning like 5 which I can't wake up that early like a person how can be like her??? Even when i move out for job i was just needing some little money from her but she gets more angry I can't never understand her and she is never happy with her life and she is always talks about less money less money even though i have needs😢 she always use the word useless always stay in my feet think like me and this kind of behavior makes me so difficult with her because of that even I don't talk to her 😢😢😢😢
In my growing area she demotivate me that much that i have to cry infront of my colleagues😢😢 she is unhappy with her life always she can't manage work but she even don't want to hear what is the main problm in me.
Mere case mae toh mujhe yahi nahi pata ki meri mummy narcissistic hai ya extra caring..childhood se srif padha hi allowed hai ….baki sab not allowed,annual function not allowed,sports not allowed … participate karna toh chore hi do jaake attend bhi karlu toh vo bhi baadi baat thi, friend b'day party not allowed ,friends ke sath ghumne jana ya park jaana not allowed,school trip not allowed……even akele ghar ke bahar nikalna not allowed…. college bhi srif exam dene jaati hu ….vo bhi mummy ke sath mummy reception pe wait karti hai …..top not allowed only kurti allowed….phone mila hai but facebook ,insta,not allowed….. youtube pe hi chup chap ke todha mann bahela leti hu….yeh unko nahi pata hai …….ghumne jane ka bahut shauk hai….koi park hi leja le toh itni khushi hoti hai jaise swarg mae hu…..jaha bhi jana hai srif parents ke sath …makeup not allowed , aaj tak kajal stick ko touch bhi nahi kiya………..once i remeber that mere periods miss ho gaye thae toh she ask me that kahi mae pregnant toh nahi hu in a very bad tone but when she knows that my hemoglobin is low then she takes care of me……ek baat acchi hai ki mujhe padhne dete hai…aur govt job ke exam dene bhi dete hai😂
My mom found out I did sh. Then she found a text thread between me and my friend where I was talking about her behavior. When we all sat down to talk about everything, she only put input on the fact I had talked about her. What’s the more serious topic; sh, or talking about your mother?
My mother did all of this and more but what mostly affected me was the forced drowning in freezing showers and the grabbing my face with one hand and lifting me by it to scream blood murder directly at me.
Not my mother but the mother in law
Yup. I told my friends, you like her so much, you live with her
The suck things is when you go outside and put smile face and people think you are happy person with good family:hey you smile today wow you really have a good parents
Me:WTF just because iam smile doesnt mean iam happy you a*****le,you think iam always happy with my parents i never communicate with my parents, so dont think iam happy with my parents,cause you dont know what ive been through with them!!!!
the lady who calls herself mom is same what you just said …..she is horrid…..cant prove to others
I once asked her to be kinder and gentler to me like she always did with other people. She didn't even know what she should do. She just kept saying that she didn't know what to do. Felt like i asked too much…
yeah im gonna leave this "home. " enough is enough
When i hawe my friend's are with me shes so kind… But when im alone it's a diffrent story.. When my mom's friend's are over i just stare at the ground deppressed and i beg them to not go they yous't care abt how ur grades are and how u look my mom say's im fat witch rlly hurts me and makes me wanna h!ng myself…..😭
I can so relate to this bcoz my MOM is the same. I work my ass off bought a house for her and yet I m the bad person just bcoz I want to marry someone I love. She can't see things from my perspective to she thinks m immature to handle things I mean how you can say that to your own child know she does every possible thing just for her family and she will not utter a word to my brother who is 30 years old not earning a single penny yet I m the bad person. Yes she behaves like ohh I love my daughter when the doors are closed how ungrateful I am just bcoz she gave birth I gave the new life when we were almost homeless
I really hate why abusive mothers are very rich.
My mom will go and hamg out with my DADS side of the family and on our way home, talk shit about MY DADS FAMILY in front of me, my brothers, and my dad,
This happens all the time no matter who she was with
3rd?
100% my narc mother. After my accident, she kept asking me why I didn't care that she's been crying all day.
The second part is 100% true.
I had a surgery & I was in so much pain. I could not get up and walk. But, she created a whole situation about herself and told everyone that her back hurts.
I was expected to cook food for myself while my stitches were still there.
Thankfully our neighbour helped me & gave me food for few days when my own parents left me all alone at home for her ‘backache’.
When they returned, she had a huge fight with me and tried to hit me while I was still in pain.
Whi to problem hai,,bahr k logo ko yakeen hi nhi hota reality me kya hai
Dude talking about his own mom hoping she sees this short 😂
I love my mum so much, but it’s sad to arrive at a point where I feel better without her in my life ! It’s sad to feel better and healthier without someone you Love😔 But I choose myself for once in my life and the cost of inner peace it worth it!
I am living with her,,, sorry to say , but she's a threat ,, Mera Sara ka Sara charm or talent mar diya enhone
he’s always spot on
Ik its disorder and all.. but it is what it is . Fucking bad karmas
Couldn't be more accurate
My mother was kind to all my siblings gentle sweet caring loving to everyone and i mean EVRYONE
Exept me
Yup
Their like an agent working for evil/satan it feels like sometimes
You must’ve known mine. She would actually get after people who tried to come to my rescue. “Don’t come into my house and tell me how to raise my child”! “If you think you can do a better job, he’s all yours”!
Is she was on her period, she would try to take us down with her.
Same here
I think I have got the most toxic mother…and I m struggling so much in life bcos of her
My step mother always does this as a child she did this to me I grew up and still as an adult like the other day I was around my family and found out one of my family members passed away just the other day and when I was speaking to my family members my step mother touched my arm going to do the pinching thing she does I looked straight at her like I don't think so I'm grieving my family passed away
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