TO BEAT OR NOT TO BEAT YOUR KIDS || CONTROVERSIAL OPINION || Parenting Alphas S1E7 || Soila & Curtis

The extent of trauma and socialization we have as Kenyans highly reflects on the discipline measures effected,most believe in punishment first, sprinkled with anger and marinated in verbal abuse

This was an interesting one today….. beating the child with the amount of words coming out of your mouth 🤣🤣🤣🤣we have heard…thank you teo beautiful souls

African mother's way to say sorry:
Siwewe nimechapa nimechapa makosa😅

It's also good to tell your children why you have punished them. After beating them don't go silent try to strike a conversation with them or engage with them.

Great work there! This is taken me down memory lane hilariously. With my Level 5 curiosity, I'm grateful my mother administered spanking. My father on the other hand never lay a finger on me which I've never understood. This phenomenon is shared also amongst my friends where we wonder, are mothers generally responsible for spanking?

Aki Curtis is so extraaaaa😂😂😂😂😂😂.I have been struggling with th8s discipline thing…but i hope to figure it out soon

For me I wasn’t caned
Though my siblings were 🤭
I was somehow very agreeable personality wise from a young age and also I was aware how conflict looks like and I was sure I never wanted to be on the other side of the consequences

Mostly for me a talk would help and I didn’t need canning for direction which my parents didn’t use but they did discipline my siblings

Love this conversation and thank you for welcoming us to your beautiful home ❤️
God bless

I cant express how hard I laughed on this one!! Love this

I watched a video by Celestine with paediatrician Dr. Wachira where he explained that there are things children learn faster from their fathers or father figures being present compared to their mothers because they view mum as first a source of food and comfort and it's hard for them to see past that to learn things. Hence why fathers are needed to step in and bridge that gap and teach those things. I hope I'm making sense

I should sue someone venye i was beaten growing up not only by my mom buh hata my unties and uncles wah trauma…now i dodnt even know what to do about my baby😭🥺

I love this video. Very eye opening. It just hit me I wasn't disciplined much as a child and I see my daughter doesn't need much disciplining as well. She listens well ❤

Aki vile tuliundwa na maneno😂😂😂…mpaka shule banaa😂😂😂
Kwanza hiyo ya kula kwa neighbor kaaai…imagine niliacha😂😂😂ama nikikula i would make sure i leave space for food for momma😂😂
One time i was called to a neighbor's home(watoto wa ploti😂haloo) so i was given chapatti and there was always this competition in plots and moms mmoja akipika chapo mwingine ndio huyo😂..and u know kids love chapos i mean…😂.
Sasa wacha this one time vile nimeandika nikaitiwa chapo in my close friends' home sasa tulikua tunaishi juu ya balcony so their house was under,mom calls🌚mom knows where i am🌚mom looks over window 🌚 daughter is tensed🥺daughter has hot chapo in hand😂daughter decided to put hot chapo in between shirt and short😂daughter is burning 😢daughter rushes home😂mom beats daughter in rythtmic pattern(ni🥿li🥿ku🥿a🥿mbi🥿a🥿 a🥿je🥿)😢…Chapati falls down due to pain💔mom sees🌚mom angry🌚mom says to finish chapo and stay home😂mom cooks❤daughter is full😂daughter cant eat..momma gives me bombastic side eyes🌚daughter has to eat😂😂😂 waah.

This 👏🏾 is 👏🏾 good 👏🏾

Curtis you have the facts 😅😅 that part of beat a child while talking yo him or her 😅😅😅😅😅love l this video

You guys handled this sensitive topic very well. Self control and emotional awareness is key in my view. We need to consider the age of the child and their personality type when deciding what type of discipline to met out. My son is a pleaser and sensitive so I chose time outs and talking rather than spankings. I only spanked him maybe 3 times in his life and now he's a well adjusted adult. The only times I spanked my child were when he did things with friends that he knew were wrong. Like breaking the water meter glass or sneaking up on the neighbours house. Some kids however have different personality types and also carry different spirits. Like the spirit of kindness, boldness, jealousy, envy, entitlement, consideration, empathy, people pleasing, servitude, others have psycopathic tendencies that cause them to harm animals, pets, other children and to be destructive. This is what makes disciplining especially for step parents a challenge. Loved the studio set up and your babies are growing so fast and beautiful. 🎉❤ congratulations 🎊

love, love how you tackled this topic. Nuggets of wisdom here🙂