There is a song that says something like “dont cry over spilled perfume” and I, a 14 year old, said “Yes there is! That stuff is expensive!” And my mom just laughed.
the way you walked away saying oh my fuuucking god, was really funny to me for some reason, but seriously you are a great parent and i love your videos
THIS!!! I've had to walk away a few times for things…and have to tell myself that if I cared about it that much, I wouldn't have left it where she could access it 😅
I love seeing the walk away part before you lost it all bc growing up my mom would get mad and yell and sometimes spank us if we had done something wrong and later on usually soon after all of the yelling and everything I would be sitting down upset that I got yelled at and everything and then my mom would come up to me and start apologizing and cuddling up to me and everything and to me that was normal but after seeing this I now realize that she got mad and yelled and then apologized after she took out all her anger out on us isn't normal and shouldn't have happened I hope when I do have kids I parent like you do and not how my parents did
As a kid, when I inevitably did my stealing makeup ritual my mom screamed at me for it and I got grounded and didn’t even know what I did wrong until I asked and she yelled at me for that too. Your kids may not know it, but simply remaining calm when something like that happens is amazing and will prevent a lot of shit in the future. You are an amazing mother
I have a little brother who is 19 months, he’s walking and talking (yelling) and my mam whenever it goes quiet she goes “He’s doin smth.” And she always finds him in pulling stuff out of drawers 😂
Took into account that you needed to calm down before speaking, but first made sure that you didn't have to immediately call poison control.
Acknowledged that littles need to learn "paws off" but also that you need to be careful not to leave your stuff lying about; where they can get easy access.
I have totally had that moment of seeing the mess, assessong that my son was safe, and then just walking tf right back out of the room to be like 👀😵🤯😡😤 and THEN you go back in, but this time prepared lmao
I would loose it ngl I also have a mortgage payments worth of makeup like maybe even more than that I would respond with just walk away walking away helps a lot
I love how you walk away my mom and dad mostly my dad just screams I have started to tell him don't you dare scream he does not like that but I found it makes him not scream but then he says I wasn't going to scream when I know he 100 percent was going to scream
Been there done that! Must say I handled it quite poorly, considering the fact that I was the one that left my makeup palette out where my kids could get their hands on it, but they also did not handle it very well, because they screamed and cried when I had them help me clean it up yeah but just wanna say I’m proud of you because I should’ve done that and accepted some responsibility for it but the top my head exploded instead yeah it was a sad time. I just had to remind myself that I love them more than my make up it was a Long conversation with myself, but in the end, they came out on top still …. By a hair
Dude it's only make up.. I don't know why you moms out there need to be so upset over every little thing.. let the kid express her or he self again it's only make up.. u can get more just save up easy 👀 I don't see why waste your time getting so uptight over every little thing.. 🤷♀️
It’s the difference between treating children like idiots incapable of reason/learning and treating them (and yourself) as human beings. I love seeing you show the difference.
meanwhile my mother when i touch anything that is hers: your free trial of living has ended, stupid child. time to give you to an orphanage yes, i am the middle child
I like how you allow yourself to be upset, communicate that to your children, and give yourself time to calm down before going back to handle the situation. It shows kids that parents/adults are allowed to be mad, too, and what matters is how you express those emotions. It shows them the importance of stepping away to cool down for a bit instead of reacting in the moment.
This. This is why playpens exist. Crate train the toddlers. 😂
Love this
momma needs a min🤣
There is a song that says something like “dont cry over spilled perfume” and I, a 14 year old, said “Yes there is! That stuff is expensive!” And my mom just laughed.
Point? There was none.
Still one of my favorite videos of you and about genteel parenting.
the way you walked away saying oh my fuuucking god, was really funny to me for some reason, but seriously you are a great parent and i love your videos
And putting our shit away.
LOVE that you mentioned both sides.
Maybe don't use make up, is that really you?
The most mom thing I’ve ever said is totally “it’s too quiet in there what’s going on?” Lmao Solidarity sister 😂
I would be like, probably like very mad and I would be like oh my God I am going to leave this room so I do not scream at you guys and make you upset
Oh, that terrifying moment when you realize you haven’t heard your kids in a few minutes and know they’re destroying something
I would’ve just been beaten
Did you eat any of it…okay, I'll be back when I'm calm.
What I would do: wtf is going on 😂
SO THANKFUL FOR your videos!,
😊😊 yes!, we can step away as long as
They are safe.. 😃
Anger was shown , regulation wasn't..
🤔
Pretty green make up ! Great for st. Patr tricks ! 😊😊
THIS!!! I've had to walk away a few times for things…and have to tell myself that if I cared about it that much, I wouldn't have left it where she could access it 😅
It's never good when they go quiet.
Noth8ng more terrifying than suddenly realizing you havnet heard your children tryimg to kill eachother in 3min.
we want quiet until it's quiet, then it's suspicious
Stepping away until you were calm enough to address the situation is a concept I’ve never experienced. Again, wish I grew up with you as a parent 😢
My mom would just have a slipper in her hand
I love seeing the walk away part before you lost it all bc growing up my mom would get mad and yell and sometimes spank us if we had done something wrong and later on usually soon after all of the yelling and everything I would be sitting down upset that I got yelled at and everything and then my mom would come up to me and start apologizing and cuddling up to me and everything and to me that was normal but after seeing this I now realize that she got mad and yelled and then apologized after she took out all her anger out on us isn't normal and shouldn't have happened I hope when I do have kids I parent like you do and not how my parents did
As a kid, when I inevitably did my stealing makeup ritual my mom screamed at me for it and I got grounded and didn’t even know what I did wrong until I asked and she yelled at me for that too. Your kids may not know it, but simply remaining calm when something like that happens is amazing and will prevent a lot of shit in the future. You are an amazing mother
This is a great example – thanks for demonstrating this! I'll be thinking about it for a while.
I have a little brother who is 19 months, he’s walking and talking (yelling) and my mam whenever it goes quiet she goes “He’s doin smth.” And she always finds him in pulling stuff out of drawers 😂
"Oh my f-hucking god" that is way too accurate.
slay
Took into account that you needed to calm down before speaking, but first made sure that you didn't have to immediately call poison control.
Acknowledged that littles need to learn "paws off" but also that you need to be careful not to leave your stuff lying about; where they can get easy access.
I got my ass beat and I learned to not touch things that don’t belong to me.
I have totally had that moment of seeing the mess, assessong that my son was safe, and then just walking tf right back out of the room to be like 👀😵🤯😡😤 and THEN you go back in, but this time prepared lmao
I would loose it ngl I also have a mortgage payments worth of makeup like maybe even more than that I would respond with just walk away walking away helps a lot
I love how you walk away my mom and dad mostly my dad just screams I have started to tell him don't you dare scream he does not like that but I found it makes him not scream but then he says I wasn't going to scream when I know he 100 percent was going to scream
Yes ma'am, I'm here for it…
Been there done that! Must say I handled it quite poorly, considering the fact that I was the one that left my makeup palette out where my kids could get their hands on it, but they also did not handle it very well, because they screamed and cried when I had them help me clean it up yeah but just wanna say I’m proud of you because I should’ve done that and accepted some responsibility for it but the top my head exploded instead yeah it was a sad time. I just had to remind myself that I love them more than my make up it was a Long conversation with myself, but in the end, they came out on top still …. By a hair
This is great. Alot of parents dont understand that punishments should be based off of rules, not the parents mood.
My cousins son used a jeffree star palette to do a camo look all over his face.
Dude it's only make up.. I don't know why you moms out there need to be so upset over every little thing.. let the kid express her or he self again it's only make up.. u can get more just save up easy 👀 I don't see why waste your time getting so uptight over every little thing.. 🤷♀️
Hahahaahhha I get that I 1 child she always gets in my makup I get it but I have to be nice but I won’t to say fu k ing go no bad
Omg That first one is how my mom’s friends parents and no wonder that child acts up
It’s the difference between treating children like idiots incapable of reason/learning and treating them (and yourself) as human beings. I love seeing you show the difference.
I feel like the shirt youre wearing fits this very well XD
(“You can’t break rules that don’t exist”)
$12 lipstick used to turn the at the time 3 year old into a red ..very vibrant red… lol
lemonade lululemonade
meanwhile my mother when i touch anything that is hers: your free trial of living has ended, stupid child. time to give you to an orphanage
yes, i am the middle child
I like how you allow yourself to be upset, communicate that to your children, and give yourself time to calm down before going back to handle the situation. It shows kids that parents/adults are allowed to be mad, too, and what matters is how you express those emotions. It shows them the importance of stepping away to cool down for a bit instead of reacting in the moment.
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