Im a huge fan of natural consequences. If its not foung mame mutilate or kill my child Id rather them get that bump on their head than screm they shouldnt be doing that.
I love this! This is how I am with my kids the second half and everybody looks at me odd like Iβm doing something wrong, but my kids are happy and healthy and decent people so Iβm good with it π nice to know Iβm not aloneπ
I always ask my six year old "does it hurt bad enough to stop playing?" Most of the time it is a resounding no, sometimes it is yes. π€·ββοΈ but I feel like it let's her gage her pain herself.
The applied βgentle parentingβ is just fuck around and find out. Thatβs the the mentality of a parent born in the 40s that would be deemed harsh.
LOL.. I live this just yesterday. I got as far as, " If you keep leaning back on that chair like that it's gonna" before it tipped over. Then he looks at me as if it's my fault that gravity works.
Are you dyeing? No? Is it falling off your body? No? Are you bleeding out? No? Is it broken? No? Well, then you're are ok. Go back and play more carefully.
Anytime my dramatic nephew (sisters 2nd oldest) gets hurt it's an instant "one stop screaming. Two what happened? You bleeding?" I love him but lord this child will limp cause he scratched his leg-
I ask almost the same questions! "Bleeding?" No "Is it broken?" No "Do we need to cut it off?!" NO! (lol) "Do you want a kiss?" Yes. Usually when they get hurt I tell them how the pain will progress, so they know what to expect. Scrape- "you're okay but the first time you put it in water it'll hurt, then it won't hurt anymore"
I'd still offer an ice pack, "ok, what do we do when we're injured? No blood, so you know where the ice pack is, go get it." I was a clumsy child. Ice pack doesn't cost anything to use, my mom didn't require permission to use a bandaid as long as we didn't use them like stickers. I was washing my own scrapes and scratches pretty early. Why even bother mom when it's just a scratch?
Unsafe choices….never heard the word stupid exchanged with unsafe before. That wasn't very smart. Or, That was dumb or stupid. Those phrases were said often. Grandchildren are 6, 8, and 12….those phrases are still said. Making them responsible for their actions seems a hard emotionless way to raise them. They still get hugs and kisses, but they know it was their own fault and learn to accept that they did this to themselves. Nothing hurts more than self reflection.
Any parent that completely changes their personality and the way they talk around their children gives me the chills. Maybe because that was my mom. Iβm so glad you show your kids who you actually are.
Im a huge fan of natural consequences. If its not foung mame mutilate or kill my child Id rather them get that bump on their head than screm they shouldnt be doing that.
Mom: Are you dead
Me: yeah
Thatβs how I would have reacted in this situation
"are you bleeding? no? are you broken? no? are you dead? no? your fine." thats my mom lol
I love you
Ok but, the magic the gathering tattoo, we've gotta love it
My mom would have spent a solid minute laughing so very HARD at me.
Pain princesssssssπ π π π
Distracto boy and princess pain π Most relatable thing Iβve seen today
I love this! This is how I am with my kids the second half and everybody looks at me odd like Iβm doing something wrong, but my kids are happy and healthy and decent people so Iβm good with it π nice to know Iβm not aloneπ
I always ask my six year old "does it hurt bad enough to stop playing?" Most of the time it is a resounding no, sometimes it is yes. π€·ββοΈ but I feel like it let's her gage her pain herself.
I thought she said "eat your earthlings" at firstπ€£π€£π€£
Eager earthlings π
βAre u deadβ yeahβ¦ βwell goodβ
The applied βgentle parentingβ is just fuck around and find out. Thatβs the the mentality of a parent born in the 40s that would be deemed harsh.
Eager earthling β€
LOL.. I live this just yesterday. I got as far as, " If you keep leaning back on that chair like that it's gonna" before it tipped over. Then he looks at me as if it's my fault that gravity works.
You can slightly hear her trying not to laugh
Are you dyeing? No? Is it falling off your body? No? Are you bleeding out? No? Is it broken? No? Well, then you're are ok. Go back and play more carefully.
Tell me about the book! I've seen it before and wanted to read it, is it good?
Anytime my dramatic nephew (sisters 2nd oldest) gets hurt it's an instant "one stop screaming. Two what happened? You bleeding?" I love him but lord this child will limp cause he scratched his leg-
I ask almost the same questions! "Bleeding?" No "Is it broken?" No "Do we need to cut it off?!" NO! (lol) "Do you want a kiss?" Yes. Usually when they get hurt I tell them how the pain will progress, so they know what to expect. Scrape- "you're okay but the first time you put it in water it'll hurt, then it won't hurt anymore"
I'd still offer an ice pack, "ok, what do we do when we're injured? No blood, so you know where the ice pack is, go get it." I was a clumsy child. Ice pack doesn't cost anything to use, my mom didn't require permission to use a bandaid as long as we didn't use them like stickers. I was washing my own scrapes and scratches pretty early. Why even bother mom when it's just a scratch?
Destructo boy and princess pain! Hilarious
when my sisters acted crazy and my mom knew they were going to get hurt she just left the room and locked herself in her room.
Me: Does it need stitches? No? Maybe? You're fine. Walk it off.
They all lived to replicate
"I bet you don't do that again." Me, an intellectual; immediately does it again asserting my dominance over the cabinets…
I Always Love the little nickname things you say when u do these types of videos! They always crack me up!π
Second one trying not to laugh
This makes me laugh every time I see it. Eager earthling isn't at a reasonable age yet, but I can't wait.
Unsafe choices….never heard the word stupid exchanged with unsafe before.
That wasn't very smart. Or,
That was dumb or stupid.
Those phrases were said often. Grandchildren are 6, 8, and 12….those phrases are still said.
Making them responsible for their actions seems a hard emotionless way to raise them. They still get hugs and kisses, but they know it was their own fault and learn to accept that they did this to themselves.
Nothing hurts more than self reflection.
Any parent that completely changes their personality and the way they talk around their children gives me the chills. Maybe because that was my mom. Iβm so glad you show your kids who you actually are.
hahahah I'm both of these moms hahahahah π€£ I'm also the I TOLD YOU SO mom . of 4 extremely tough daughters
I'm definitely the second one lol its your alive your fine π
Mean while I got into Saniflush toilet bowl cleaner and i was blue for weeks . I didn't get a lollie :p
βDestructo boy, princess painβ I have found my new favorite nicknames.
The first one is unbearable
My favorite response I ask my daughter βIt hurts? Okay, let me go grab the scissors so we can cut it offβ
A feel better Lolli love it only if
She is dead ass me with my future kids π
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