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If you take out the words "with adhd" you get an honest break down of how to raise a normal child.
Im trying to find new ways to help my younger brother as he is getting into trouble a lot at school and at home there are a lot of arguments with our dad. My dad tries his absolute best to make sure my brother learns from his bad behaviour but nothing ever really changes and he continues doing bad things when he has been told not to. I think my dad could try the cleaning up technique and make sure my brother does something positive to counter the negative thing that has happened e.g. yelling at a teacher, maybe sending them an email or making a card for them to show he is sorry. But tโs difficult to get him to want to take accountability as he is 13 and for some reason he just keeps doing the same things over and over. We donโt know if it is his ADHD or just his hormones as he is just turned a teenager but it is getting very difficult for my dad to parent him as he is very rebellious and continues doing the same wrong things all the time. Keeps arguing with him. Always needs to be right and have the last word. Never takes no for an answer and even when thereโs a reason, he will keep on pushing and says he doesnโt understand. I think it might be better if me and my dad (as i care for my brother too) look for different methods accountability and teaching, because the ones we have at the moment are clearly not working, and instead of blaming my brother, maybe we should try a different technique. Any advice would be great, thank you.
I have a 3 year old who doesn't listen to anything. He can hear just fine but it goes in one ear out right out of the other. I am stuck in limbo on how to discipline him because he's still learning how to process his feelings and navigate the world so i don't know how to yet.
Wish my parents could have seen this 40 years ago.
Hey I was going to go off today and I did not on a guy. Change is real. For ADHD kids, probably hard to do though. Agree, no ramifications equals future crazy kid who lashes out on elders and ect with no regard for respect. Not good. I was not raised right and even I learned the right way, though mostly from the internet, but watching people. Discernment is important.
Seriously refreshing to hear you say you believe in consequences. Gonna start using this advice.
Hi adhd dude I am a 13 year old going through a tough time like doing stuff i'm not supposed to do, not doing as i am told, etc this video really helps, so thanks!
Honestly as a mom who had a child in her early teen years, my kid is now 10. She has been diagnosed with ADHD and it does seem far a punishment she doesnโt care. My mom and sister help raise her and we all talk to her and everything. Take things away from her and she still doesnโt seem to care. I need to look into things thatโll get her more active because it seems like sheโs so focused on being disobedient. Iโm currently in tears rn because I just donโt know what to do. It seems she wants to follow the wrong path every time. Will definitely try taking this approach.
Hi love your videos my daughter add ADHD thank you for your teaching bliss Amen
The number of times I went without tv or video games as a punishment went right up until I left home
I'm someone with ADHD and whenever my parents tried to punish me my behaviour just got worse
getting desensitized to punishment is so true,
my Sunday school class was full of ADHD boys, and they were constantly acting up, so parents were always called, however, nothing ever changed, because after a while, they didn't react to the threat of corporal punishment
What are some things that donโt have consequences in real life that should be ignored? My gut tells me you are right, but my head is struggling with what those things are.
In 2015 when Silento was big his song would play all the time. My dad lodestar son at 5 years old loved to dance to it. About three years later he started to behave abnormally; it was concerning. My wife and brother-in-law decided the whip and nay nay him to said Silento track. My son has since then became an academic student and is playing baseball for his schools team. Soon he will be enlisted in the military and I could not be prouder of him; great video.
Now I know why punishment never worked for me๐คฆโโ being diagnosed late with Autism and ADHD.
And how exactly do you get the child to actually do those things to clean up to take accountability??
I was ADHD as a kid, but I got the cane at school and that sorted me out OK. In fact all the ADHD kids at my school got the cane back in the 1950's, and we all went on to become upright citizens. Of course that was before the stupid internet arrived to make us all crazy.
I wish my teachers and principal and dad had seen this back around 1980. The world was a very dark place, because it seemed that there was nothing in life but punishments. And so I lived in constant dread of what was going to happen next. I didnโt feel safe at home, and I didnโt feel safe at school. Iโm not sure why it never occurred to them that punishments donโt seem to work with this kid. Finally, in the middle of winter, at the age of 12, I hitchhiked 200 miles away to try to escape.
mine just started getting violent. He's 6. Screaming at the top of his lungs, throwing things, and hitting. I'm going to make sure I work out with him and play something that involves a little work out.
Does the ADHD or ADD or ODD include stealing and lying? Isnโt there also a PTD?
An ADHD dad of an ADHD son here. I'm frightened that the ONLY thing that DOES WORK is punishment… as long as it's immediate and not too severe (not raising too much emotions). Building good habits and good relationships works great, but impossibly slow. A simple "Start on the task or finish playing before I count to 3 or no computer games today.. 1… 2…" works every time. ๐
I really wish this was available to my mom back then. She has very little patience and didnโt give new things a try too long always resorting to physical punishment, so I was put on Ritalin, which made me depressed and overweight, but I learned that she too is ADHD, but wonโt admit it, nor was she treated. But, she has no problem self diagnosing other people.
My 6 year old niece with ADHD also appears to be devoid of empathy. For example pets are merely objects, like her toys, for her amusement We have to watch her around the poor dog and cats for their well being.
Love the advice from others who are steps ahead of me.
My poor son spent his whole life being told off at school and at home, no wonder he is a very miserable adult with very low self esteem
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