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Parents in fact, DO owe their children 3 Things: reciprocated H.E.R. (honor, esteem and respect).
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As someone who has been estranged from their entire family for over 15 years, this is everything. I remember my mother saying 'no matter how I treat you, you will always be there for me.' Be careful how you treat us, we gon treat you like you treated us.
My mother betrayed me and made me cry and I promised myself that I will love from afar and that she will never get the change to hurt me again. I have made peace with this, and I am happy. I don't have to avail myself to people who are unkind, cruel and hurtful.
Guys its time
My parents lost 90% of their adult children, based on this content.
I have never heard anyone say it so clearly and concisely!
I been selfless and hardworking mom to provide now my teen son blames me for everything . To God be the glory I am at peace if her never wishes to see me because I did all I knew to do
I'm a disabled vet that is having to parent a codependent parent. I have no freedom in life.
Disappearing is definitely on my list
parents like this will never be willing to listen. it's terrible
and some of these children grow up to be a holes and treat good parents like garbage, that's the truth…so the door swings both ways.
YEAH if the parents were GOOD to their children…But these parents abuse abandoned hurt their children then want honor and respect!! WTF NO…….
I totally agree with you young lady. God has blessed me with seven beautiful amazing children and respect is a two-way street. I cannot expect to receive what I am not FIRST willing to give. Thank you for this video.
Good Lordy is all I can say!
Amen! This needs to be told to many parents!
Truth! 💯
They A holes
I know someone who work two minimum wage jobs to pay all the bills for reasons like these including young people being lazy. This kind of 'respect' in any relationship is just oppressive rhetoric..
I agree, it's not the no matter what part I disagree with. But there are plenty of parents that should be honored that aren't being honored.
I support this lady's message, some parents think they can treat horribly and your obligated to put up with it, the answer is no they are not
😮Word, Sound is Power!!!
My mom has never respected me in my life
You honor parents because of who they are, not because they earned it. A slippery slope awaits those who can't fathom the endless rationales YOUR 1.8 kids will have for letting you grow old alone & unprotected.
Having the title parent doesnt entitle you to treat your kids any kind of way and it doesnt entitle you to access to them forever. They will grow and get to make that decision for themselves. And toxic is toxic, even if its family.
I have homeschooled all three of my kids and still have a great relationship with them. I have apologized for my mistakes as a parent and own up to my own responsibilities. I feel that my kids can teach me a thing or two. I try to be positive and affirming even when i disagree with them. I respect their boundries and to this day have a great relationship with them.
You are right. The problem is people have been taught wrong about the scriptures. Honor your mother and father really refers to our holy mother and father, that is to say God and Goddess not your earth stewards. Of course you respect these stewards(parents) to a degree as long as they are in order. Yes children come to teach parents just as jesus taught mary. And yes, I said Godess, all religions knew about the goddess until the patriachs wanted to take control of women. The women came first. There is no man without a women. The women birthed everyrhing. And everyone came from the black women. This is a historical and scientific fact.
It's so funny when parents think you'll live with them forever. How are they not scared that their children will abandon them once they're fully independent??
Don’t let go of those you love because they don’t know love. Unconditional love is something we should truly learn and teach.
I hate when I am told to follow mother commands just because I make my own decisions. And if I don't follow her then she reject me and say that I'm not her son.
You are my hero! Thank you
WORD ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Not totally true- there’s many who cut their parents off due to parenting differences between Boomers with Gen X and Y kids+ they often think parenting is about being a friend to their child rather than teach them to be a responsible adult- they don’t like to hear criticism of their children’s bad behaviour, ie look at todays youth! Out of control, little respect and addicted to screens
Amen! Parents always bring up the honor thy mother and father verse but forget to include Ephesians 6:4 in the Bible, “parents should not provoke their children to anger by the way they treat them”. Being an obedient, humble child isn’t easy when you’re always being provoked and triggered for nothing…
All you can do is give yourself grace for not knowing things and then forgive yourself. Which is all a part of self-love and healing.
This is why I stay far far away from my parents. My sister does as well. I’m Happy, At Peace, and Thriving. I’ve been away for many years now and I encourage others to do the same if your family makes you feel down, uncomfortable, unloved it’s not you it is them.
This is a horrible destructive trend. Cutting off parents does not bring healing. Trust me I know. Only through forgiveness and communication does any healing happen. You can not heal from trauma by causing heartache In another person's life. The trend of cutting off parents will be the down fall of the entire family in our society.
Your children shouldn’t have to beg for respect, or basic needs, your child will be grateful naturally because you do as a parent give them the world(as much as you have to give) and they may not realise it but that’s a little human that you’re shaping and moulding, so why teach them that guilt tripping, manipulation and being a dick will get them what they want, parents and children alike were breaking generational trauma but let’s use our words and work together
Omg. Thank you so much for this. This attitude of “I’m your mom and whatever I say or do you’re gonna like it” is so toxic and narcissistic.
Just saw a study out of the Netherlands….young children put into daycare develop an attachment disorder….they become unattached to their parents. I believe this is why children desert their parents in adulthood.
Yes! Thank you for this precise description of what so many out there are still not getting and what others of us have had enough of. Boundaries are in, baby! ❤🎉
Yes.
My breaking point was when I realized that there was nothing else in my life I wanted to share with this person. Every good thing that was going for me, they would use it against me and play victim. Meanwhile, they were the biggest hypocrite and always gave advice that they needed to take themselves.
Guilted, conditioned, threatened…
Those who act like they don't owe their children anything, will be treated in kind.
Bible: " They child is father to the man". OK.
Why respect honor and gratitude should be subjects of an
" argument" to eventually be lost is not necessarily inevitable.
Sometimes children and parents have to separate to appreciate each other more fully.
Thank you.
Screaming with joy for you and the family!!! God is Amazing!!!
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