Stop seeking her advice if you are offended by it…its ok to ask but in the end its just her advice…you really are the final authority…i remember how i grew up and there were some things my mother told me as a teenager I would never tell my children…now I love my mother but not all parents are perfect… I understand she did what she had to do while she and my father were raising me but when you are the parent and they're the grandparents always remind the kids that they live with you and not grandma or grandpa and what you say goes period!
Old school or new school is not the problem. The people is when the mother tries to have an authority figure to her child grandma keeps barging in and mocking her by telling her grandchildren that their mother didn't use to brush her teeth or talking back at her or drinking etc
Im living with my youngest n his wife n baby on the way luckily is sn ot trucker or id be drivin him crazy too but they need to know the reality of the results…it has caused hurt feelings but they are doing way better.. soc media rasing kids is scary as hell.. these parenting groups are so liberal
She is being the mother she knows how to be. If you would indulge me a moment. I wish I had my mom on this earth to fuss with, to share with, to offer me advice. The next time you want to stifle your mom; Stop. Take a look at your future and imagine her not being in it. If you still want to stifle her then do so. But, if that future is untenable to you I say, endure those moments of her feedback for the joy of her presence. I want my mom's presence and all that comes with it, negative, positive and whatever. The alternative to a mother's presence is her no longer being in this life. BTW, you will always hear your mom's words in your spirit long after she is gone, you may as well accept it now. You dont have to act on her advice, receive it, say thank you mom and move on. Appreciate her time left in this life. Also, the person you are is the result of her influence in your life. You may not want to believe that but it's true. One more thing, don't discourage communications between her and her grands, my grandmother helped me navigate things I wouldn't ask my mom about.
You go Steve, my whole brud called family was all born and raised in Alabama There was no reasoning on anything . Now i raised mine in sort of the same way but me being a born again ,Christian. I tried to calm it down but spanking that but,was something that happened a lot i had 3 Sons and they use to like Daddy to give them a woopin.🌿❤
Hee mom needs to step back and stop comparing her to what happened when she was parenting her. She’s hurting because of it. Grandma wether you like her parenting skills or not Mind your business.
WHO. ARE. YOU. ???? NOTHING. BUT YOU. ARE. YOUR. MOTHER. A DIPLICATE OF HER. THIS. WHY. MARRYING. A. WHITE PERSON IS. THE. WORST DECISION.
HOWEVER. ""EYE""" CAN EXCUSE. YOU FOREVER BECAUSE """A. APPLE. PRODUCES A. APPLE """ EITHER. YOU. ARE. A COPY. OF YOUR FATHER. OR. YOUR. MOTHER. BOTH. MIGHT. HAVE. DONE. TO THEIR PARENTS. WHAT. YOU. ARE. DOING TO HER. A LEOPARD. CAN NOT. LOSE ITS SPOTS.
Like…. .what do you want for dinner….or every one eat in something different……no…..pot of beans and rice and ham. Eat it or starve. Ya aint going to microwave a burrito or a pot pie 🥧
This is fascinating. This young mother shld accept the fact that her mother raised him with the best principles that’s why she is where she is today !! Those old principles forms the backbone of our society societies today which the young parents are trying to break bcoz they are full of “ I know it all “
You can hear the hurt in her voice… it took a lot for her to stand up there and say all of that.
Full video?
Stop seeking her advice if you are offended by it…its ok to ask but in the end its just her advice…you really are the final authority…i remember how i grew up and there were some things my mother told me as a teenager I would never tell my children…now I love my mother but not all parents are perfect… I understand she did what she had to do while she and my father were raising me but when you are the parent and they're the grandparents always remind the kids that they live with you and not grandma or grandpa and what you say goes period!
Ole Skool all day….yup that’s this soon to be grandma
Gentle parenting
Old school or new school is not the problem. The people is when the mother tries to have an authority figure to her child grandma keeps barging in and mocking her by telling her grandchildren that their mother didn't use to brush her teeth or talking back at her or drinking etc
Love Steve tellin the truth
Im living with my youngest n his wife n baby on the way luckily is sn ot trucker or id be drivin him crazy too but they need to know the reality of the results…it has caused hurt feelings but they are doing way better.. soc media rasing kids is scary as hell.. these parenting groups are so liberal
Old school all the way!!!! ❤️🙏
She is being the mother she knows how to be.
If you would indulge me a moment. I wish I had my mom on this earth to fuss with, to share with, to offer me advice.
The next time you want to stifle your mom; Stop. Take a look at your future and imagine her not being in it. If you still want to stifle her then do so. But, if that future is untenable to you I say, endure those moments of her feedback for the joy of her presence.
I want my mom's presence and all that comes with it, negative, positive and whatever.
The alternative to a mother's presence is her no longer being in this life.
BTW, you will always hear your mom's words in your spirit long after she is gone, you may as well accept it now. You dont have to act on her advice, receive it, say thank you mom and move on. Appreciate her time left in this life. Also, the person you are is the result of her influence in your life. You may not want to believe that but it's true.
One more thing, don't discourage communications between her and her grands, my grandmother helped me navigate things I wouldn't ask my mom about.
Steve is not a therapist
She sounds frustrated and just trying to parent her kids without being overridden.
I agree with Steve
yuh dont want yuh children to know you was naughty you feel shame 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Old school! All the way.
You go Steve, my whole brud called family was all born and raised in Alabama There was no reasoning on anything . Now i raised mine in sort of the same way but me being a born again ,Christian. I tried to calm it down but spanking that but,was something that happened a lot i had 3 Sons and they use to like Daddy to give them a woopin.🌿❤
Hee mom needs to step back and stop comparing her to what happened when she was parenting her. She’s hurting because of it. Grandma wether you like her parenting skills or not
Mind your business.
Her mother gave her so trauma.
WHO. ARE. YOU. ???? NOTHING. BUT
YOU. ARE. YOUR. MOTHER. A DIPLICATE
OF HER.
THIS. WHY. MARRYING. A. WHITE
PERSON IS. THE. WORST DECISION.
HOWEVER. ""EYE""" CAN EXCUSE. YOU
FOREVER BECAUSE """A. APPLE. PRODUCES A. APPLE """
EITHER. YOU. ARE. A COPY. OF YOUR
FATHER. OR. YOUR. MOTHER.
BOTH. MIGHT. HAVE. DONE. TO THEIR
PARENTS. WHAT. YOU. ARE. DOING
TO HER. A LEOPARD. CAN NOT. LOSE
ITS SPOTS.
This is a deep seated issue for this woman.
Motherhood is totally different when we become grandparents.
So true Steve…❤
''I don't negotiate with kids ,,kids are going to obey me because am their father '' ..
Old school, my daughter told me, mom these are my children please but out of it. She was right. I stand my ground. Amen
You can't
Like…. .what do you want for dinner….or every one eat in something different……no…..pot of beans and rice and ham. Eat it or starve. Ya aint going to microwave a burrito or a pot pie 🥧
This is fascinating. This young mother shld accept the fact that her mother raised him with the best principles that’s why she is where she is today !! Those old principles forms the backbone of our society societies today which the young parents are trying to break bcoz they are full of “ I know it all “
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