In this powerful The Diary of a CEO clip, psychoanalyst Erica Komisar explains how empathy, emotional validation, and calm parenting help children regulate tantrums and big emotions. EXplains how effective “parenting tips” for managing challenging “child behavior”, particularly when “children” are experiencing a “toddler tantrum”. It offers crucial “parenting advice” on how to acknowledge a child’s feelings while maintaining consistent boundaries, drawing on principles of “psychology”. This approach helps parents navigate difficult moments with calm and consistency.
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How do you deal with your kids tantrums in public? Tell us in comments..
Grab my son, throw him over my shoulder and run to the exit
I do this every single time. It works.
I never dare to scream in a store or anywhere elseâs
It was not the thing when I grow up
When my parents said NO it was NO
Oh please!!! Horrible advice.
Works for me⊠I also say itâs ok that theyâre feeling what theyâre feeling. But ya just stay firm with the no while I comfort them crying.
Just give them the cookies, â€
What a crock of shit. No wonder the world is full of wet blankets these days
A good as- whooping can cure such outbursts…
Hahahahahahaha
Dont give in thats the key
Sooooo true!
A good beating will do the job, not this crappy advise…spare the rod and spoil the child
This is the female approach. The fathers must not behave like this. Its important for kids to experience less empathetic approaches as well.
Spare the rod spoil the child
Structure is no I go tell my boss I want pay raise he says no
Itâs so comic then parents talk to their kids this way: âOh, sweetie, I recognize your feelingsâ. There is no surprise, kids are growing up so focused on themselves. They are sure their feelings is the most important thing is the world
I do not know.I have quite ambivalent feelingdmanoug this expert…
Iâve tired this is has worked a few time but there has been times when no amount of empathetic or sympathy has worked and have had to leave the store
It depends on the age. Young children dont seem to understand wordy conversations like shes talking about. My seven year old appreciates me saying I understand.
I'm really trying
And that's why the kids are such brats now. I would tell my kids before we went to the store that we are shopping for certain items and not to ask for anything
I just tell my kid "you dont need it"
Even for adults
An initial validation is fine, but a subsequent broken record style response is going to reinforce the tantrum, not extinguish it. Parents have to be prepared to ignore tantrums; attention is reinforcing even when it's not rewarding.
Thank Dra đ
My mother pulled my pants down and spanked my ass in front of everyone in the store.
Sounds like a load of bollocks
Baloney
Yes, recognize and ensure they recognize that you are recognizing your emotions but also you set the standard for behavior and if you allow them to behave that way in public, they absolutely will again and again and again and again because kids are smarter than you give them credit for especially in this video when my kids were young. We have what we called automatic and what that meant was if you throw a tantrum in the store, knowing that that is not appropriate behavior for the store, we will drop everything and leave and that happens one time because kids are smart and they know how to manipulate adult so you can spend an hour theyâre cuddling your child or you can teach them to behave properly and they will because theyâre smarter than most adult
i told
my children : we are here to by food, nothing else, if u misbehave- u stay at home or in car – they never misbehaved
Nope!! Not ever!!! I picked my daughter up, slung her over my shoulder and proudly walked us out of the store. I knew every parent watching understood. No shame. She never did that shit in the store again.
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