Signs of Toxic Parents | Toxic Parenting

Alhamdulillah for these toxic parents….🙂

I hate there behavior with me

Some parents really don't deserve children

Kuch sunai nhi deta gaane ki vajhade

My parents are so toxic that they say jao mar jao . Tum to bhes jaisi badi ho gayi ho . Tum future me kuch nhi kr paogi . Mai bhagwan se tumhari failure ke liye pray kru gi . Tum ab topper nhi ho dekhna tum pass bhi nhi ho paogi . Tum bahut batmij ho .

I hate him. I wish I could never see him

Whoever is feeling same thing …
I want to tell tou everything that its just a phase it will pass … Do studies , become financially independent try to work on urself else this society will add misery to this

Meri toxic parent mujhse kabhi pyar hi nhi kara …1 child ko fav bana rakha hai..uske sath baith ti hai ..uske sath hi gappe larati hai…usko maa blti hai …meko mere nam se pukarti hai…mujhe sirf kam ke time pukarti hai …jab kuch kam karana ho…mujhse baate karne mei koi interest hi nhi hai…baate bhi nhi karti meri mammi…unko toh meri awaaz bhi nhi pasand…1st child meri badi behen ko hamesha unko pyar krti hai…mujhe kabhi pyar hi nhi kiya….marti pitti hai mujhe galti karu toh …favt child ko kabhi pita bhi nahi…kabhi hum dno beheno mei ladai ho jaye toh hamesha uska sath deti hai ..chahe galti uski hi kiu na ho…..mere kapre fatt jaate hai …mujhe karid ke naye kapre nhi deti…deti bhi hai toh mujko ro ro ke lena padta hai…fav wali ko bina kahe hi mere parents la dete hai…mei bimar ho jau toh doctor ke pass nhi le jati. Paisa nhi hai bl kr…ab kiya khudko bechke 2jko le jau blke…but fav wali ko doctor dikhya jata woh bimar pade toh.mei itna akela hoon parent hote huye bhi ki ab…meine cat,dog pet palti hu ..taki mei depression se nikal pau.mei jobless hu mujko tana marti hai..kama kr khane blti hai,kama kr kapre kharidne blti hai .but woh bhi jobless hai usko kuch nhi .Itne biased parent 😂 pehle bhut roti thi ..ab sochti hu ab bas busy rehne ki kosish hai.aur meri pyari behen mujhe hamesha nicha dikhati hai,mujhe mummy,papa jyda pyar karte hai,2m mujhse jyda sundar nhi ho ,meri nak uchi hai ,mere daant 2mse accha hai ,mere samne 2m kuch nhi…ab god ne mujko usce kam sundar bana dya toh mei kiya karu,bas nicha dikhao mujhe.unce jyada toh meri billi mujhse pyar karti hai ..mei ab billi ko hi mummy bulati hu, mentally bhut bura haal hai mera ,mummy ko agar pucho aap mujhse pyar kiu nhi karti mei bhi toh apki hi beti hon ..bolti hai 2mko padhya likhaya kisne hai..sirf clg mei , school mei bharti kr dena hi kiya pyar hai …badi behen ki trh mujhe kabhi pyar nhi kiya.😢parents ke pyar ke liye kitni tarci ..kahne ko parents hai par ..sab hote huywe bhi bhut akela mahsoos hota hai..bas yehi chati hoon woh khush rahe ..koi kisi ko jabardasti pyar nhi kar sakta..agar dil se na aaye toh..meri behen gusse mei kitna kuch todi kuch nhi,meine sirf 1 chota sa dahi ka khali handi tuta tha mere muh mei sare tukde uthakar fek di ..meine jaise taise apna cehera bachaya phir..phir mummy ne nakhun maar kr meri cehera kharab kr dya…lekin unki fav child ne itne mehenge chize todi kuch nhi😂abhi bhi nakhun ka nichan nhi gya.keheno ko bhut hai pr jagah kam par jayegi.mei hi unlucky hu ya kisi aur ke ghar mei bhi eaisa hai .. i mean..biased parents.mene kahi suna tha mummy,papa sabsce chote child ko jyada pyaar karte hai par mere ghar mei toh ulta hi hai..badi behen ko princess treatment aur mujhe naukrani treatment..use kahi jana ho toh tuktuk mei le jaate hai aur mujhe bus ..dil mei kitni pain hai pr na kisi ko bata sakti hoon na saha jata hai..dil ki baate dil mei rahe jaati hai.

Toxic family exist 🥹

Udaan also

Parents says… yaha uthao yaha baitho, hamari marzi k bina ghar k bahar kadam nhi rakhna, tumhara sans lena bhi ham decide karenge. Aur tum chahe kuch bhi karo life me, tum bachee jo karoge vo hmesha galat hi hoga, aur ham Parents jo bhi karenge vo hmesha sahi hi hoga. Tumhare saath tumhari jindagi me kuch bhi ho rha h, koi bully ho rhe ho ya harassment ho rha h tumhare saath, agar ham Parents ko bataaoge to usme ham tumhari hi galati nikalenge, kyuki galat to hmesha tum bachee hi hote ho. Aur chahe life me kuch bhi ho jaaye, blame to hamko keval tumpe hi daalna h

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Those who are denying this either they got good parents
Or they just made their eyes blind out of emotional dramas

True 🥺

I am kaira from dear zindagi same happens with me even worse .

Anyone Can Have A Child And Called Themselves A PARENT…..A Real Parent Is Someone Who Puts That Child Above Their Own Needs And Wants….As Children We All Of Us Had Suffered, That The Worst Thing A Parent Can A Do Is To IGNORE Their Children……Its Deadly Pathetic. If You Cannot Make TIME For Your Children, Please Don't Have Them…..And Please Stop Comparing Your Children With Others, Instead Be PROUD That They Are Much Bolder And Different From Others……………

Simple concept -jinhone jhela h woh jante h what is toxic parents..jinko ache parents mile unke liye woh bgwan h

Right now I am in a govt job A grade. I get paid well. I am 24 and I worked very hard in my student life to reach here. I can afford to have a decent life for me but I can’t have it because my parents asks me to live in a dingle rented room and asks me to adjust in everything. I adjusted and did everything they asked me to do, but I can’t let go of the past memories which still disturbs me. Now when I think about my past life, i get tears in my eyes. No one deserves to live like that. When I was a student, I used to wake up early to make breakfast and lunch for everyone, then leave for coaching by travelling one hour and used to return in evening and after coming home i used to cook dinner and do other household chores and only during the night I used to study but I wasn’t allowed to stay awake past 11 p.m. as my mother was very strict. I never mind this. I used to sneak during night to study. Sometimes if I wasn’t able to wake up early or couldn’t make breakfast and lunch on time, my mother used to yell me but she never cared about me having breakfast or not. I remember i often went coaching without having breakfast or lunch and sometimes the only meal I used to have those days was dinner. My mother was so heartless and evil. She used to made me cry almost daily. So many times I went to coaching with swollen eyes. But I was too young to take anything to heart so I didn’t mind her ever until I knew about her affair. When I got to know her I was so disgusted and scared to face her. Somehow I confronted her about this but she got defensive and started yelling at me. After some argument she accepted about it but she made me believe that she will end this which didn’t end. After that I caught her three times and the third time I was so disappointed. It’s been 6 years almost and I am pretty sure she is still having affair. But I don’t have enough courage nor do I care now so I just ignore everything for the peace of my mind. Then after that lockdown occurred. My both parents were working and we are lower middle class family so it affected us financially but I decided to use lockdown for my benefit. I had enough time as everyone was home so I didn’t have to do all the household chores by myself. I told my mother that I am preparing for some important exams so please let me study and that I’ll do my share of household chores but apart from that don’t disturb me. That lady made every single day a hell for me. Complaining to papa about me and doing other tactics as if I wasn’t her real daughter. There was no single day when she didn’t made me cry. She hated me which was very clear. If papa hadn’t supported me then, I don’t know what I would’ve done. After lockdown I cleared all competitive exams in my first attempt and soon got posting in an A grade govt job about 100 km far from home. I shifted here but the interference with my life hasn’t ended yet. Initially, when I used to travel home on weekends, I used to cook dinner for everyone after a long tiring day and still there was no acknowledgment. She still tells all our relatives that I don’t know how to do household chores as I never did any. She tells them that she didn’t let me do all this work because I was good in studies and also says me “kaamchor”. It hurts me a lot. So many time I tried to argue with her but she plays emotional card always. Last year during summer vacation, I went to home and I lived my old life once again. One day she created big scene just because the dinner I cooked wasn’t enough for everyone. She yelled at me in front of relatives, then played emotional card. That night I cried till 3:00 a.m. Then I decided that I would never come home for more than two days. Summer vacation is about to happen this year also but I have decided that I would do extra duties but wouldn’t go home. I still cries when I remember all this. I love and care for her because she is my mother but I hate her as a person.