Does My Wife Need to Know About My Porn Habit?
This is the fifth and last installment in a series for this column, answering readers’ thorniest questions about sex and… Read More »Does My Wife Need to Know About My Porn Habit?
I’m H.I.V.-Positive but Undetectable. Do Casual Sex Partners Need to Know?
This is the fourth installment in a series for this column, answering readers’ thorniest questions about sex and love as… Read More »I’m H.I.V.-Positive but Undetectable. Do Casual Sex Partners Need to Know?
They Knew Ghosting Was Not Kind. Here’s Why They Did It Anyway.
I always told myself I would never, ever ghost somebody. It has been a year now, and I still feel… Read More »They Knew Ghosting Was Not Kind. Here’s Why They Did It Anyway.
I Have Erectile Dysfunction. Do I Have to Disclose This Before Sex?
This is the second installment of a recent series for this column, answering readers’ thorniest questions about sex and love… Read More »I Have Erectile Dysfunction. Do I Have to Disclose This Before Sex?
I’m Happily Married. I Just Want to Sleep With Another Man Before I Die.
This man would have to be someone I don’t know and will never see again. I have researched a plan… Read More »I’m Happily Married. I Just Want to Sleep With Another Man Before I Die.
How to Cure My Sex Drive? Dive for Sea Urchins.
The idea made me nervous — I’d never done it before. Was I strong enough? Would I have a panic… Read More »How to Cure My Sex Drive? Dive for Sea Urchins.
These Couples Survived a Lot. Then Came Retirement.
At lunch that day, Joe wore a pink flannel shirt that suited him and had clearly been picked out by… Read More »These Couples Survived a Lot. Then Came Retirement.
Judge John Hodgman on the Strange First Date Choice
Joshua writes: Allie and I went on our first date three years ago. At dinner we were nervous, but the… Read More »Judge John Hodgman on the Strange First Date Choice
Can a Sexless Marriage Be a Happy One?
Lilien, who has two kids, says becoming a mother was a turning point for her. She had to leave her… Read More »Can a Sexless Marriage Be a Happy One?
The 16 Messages That Led to Love
Getting to know someone used to take many forms: handwritten letters, phone conversations, in-person heart-to-hearts. Today, we text. We slide… Read More »The 16 Messages That Led to Love