She’s very dramatic and takes up all the time from the other children and husband. The mom doesn’t get a break from her. She needs a program outside the house and be gone for days
I like how u don't mind if u have to take a few brakes because it's also important for u to take brakes like mikko because smts it can get overwhelming u are a great mother ❤❤❤
This is why sometimes we need to be aware of ourselves and decide if it is healthy for us and the child to have a child to begin with. I know I can’t deal with the screaming on a constant basis because of my autism. I can’t get over that hurdle personally (not saying autistic people can’t do it).
Thank you for the message. Your gentleness towards her heals a part of me too! As for dry brusing her 4 type hair, I belive wetting her hair, applying a hair conditioner and then combing from the ends up would be much easier, pain less and fast.❤
Momma whooped me in front if the cop one time. He walked off like nothing happened. If my child is acting up, they’re getting a whooping(depending on age)
Before I realized what autism was I used to yell( Lord forgive me) but once I was open to it and accepted my child being autistic I cried and apologized to my baby. She shows me so much more love now and even refuse to go to school so she can be near me. I have to write note and may have to do homeschooling..I will try to get her in the next year of school 😂😂 I cant win for losing. My heart goes out to you the mom and her baby girl with all that hair I'm so envious of( I'm playing). She is such a wonderful channel. Watching channels like this helps me out til I get another car so I can take her to her activities and art museums again. I turned my house into a wall of pictures so she has images of art. Yes it hard work but I love her. I thank God my baby is verbal. She is high functioning but so socially awkward. Good job mom.
Your really doing a great job with you daughter I know its not easy you've got this in the bag as your a very patient parent your daughter knows that she feels it the way you treat her and handle the meltdowns is unbelievable congrats momma keep up the great work there are rainbows after every dark tunnel❤😊
Gentle parenting is a thing. In this instance just know instead of suggesting your child to spray the extra water into the sink, into the hair is the better option.
This was me and my mom every morning. I’m 34 years old and have come to recognize that I’ve had some neurodivergent (autistic) traits from childhood which I masked. Life was different in the 90s. I’m so happy you’re willing to work with her. She has such beautiful hair.
It's okay for young children to have short hair. It's a lot less aggravation for the child and the parent. When she's older, if she wants long hair, she can maintain it for herself. In the mean time, a young child doesn't necessarily understand that they have long hair that needs a lot of care because their parents like it that way, not because the child is comfortable with it.
I'm raising a child with ADHD and Dyslexia. It's hard at times. I end up yelling even if I don't want to and I really don't like communicating like that. I still need to learn self control.
Good job, Mom! I actually learned this lesson completely by accident when a neighborhood child in my afterschool program had a full meltdown with nobody home. Mom and grandma were not available and could not be reached at all. So I picked up "Johnny" and walked out to the front porch swing where I held him while he yelled and screamed all over the neighborhood. I never said a word, just hugged and rocked, hugged and rocked. Until all the noise subsided and he fell asleep in my arms. Which was the whole problem in the first place. The child was tired. When he woke up, we went home and someone was there to receive him. That was my first lesson with the child of an acquaintance who had never been left with me before. I learned so much.
This is adlerian psychology, It's not intefering with a child's task, telling them their tasks and letting them do it. They will learn to do things for themselves, nto because someone is watching, meaning they are genuine in what they are doing and it also makes it enjoyable for them.
I love the way you explained this ❤
She’s very dramatic and takes up all the time from the other children and husband. The mom doesn’t get a break from her. She needs a program outside the house and be gone for days
Absolutely mommy taking control of yourself in the situation to be gentle ❤
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Mom is such a treasure to her daughter
It is obvious that it's hurting that kid..
People tend to labels literally. Parenting starts with the parents parenting themselves.
You can communicate in a healthy way and still be stern.
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Maybe she has tender head and u should avoid making hairstyles on her….
I like how u don't mind if u have to take a few brakes because it's also important for u to take brakes like mikko because smts it can get overwhelming u are a great mother ❤❤❤
I need that brush for my toddler 😂 .. I have bought them all and never find anything that works
The little killing me 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂 I remember when I was little
I admire the mom’s patience so much.I am quite quick-tempered and I know I could never deal with this much responsibility. Really amazing to see 💖💖
She loves you so much she even watches to see if you are watching her and she has a little smile 🌹🥰🌹👍🌹✨💞💞💞
My sister is not autistic & still does the same thing. Yeah being tender headed is a struggle
This is why sometimes we need to be aware of ourselves and decide if it is healthy for us and the child to have a child to begin with. I know I can’t deal with the screaming on a constant basis because of my autism. I can’t get over that hurdle personally (not saying autistic people can’t do it).
That happy "YAH" was so inspiring🤧
Thank you for the message. Your gentleness towards her heals a part of me too! As for dry brusing her 4 type hair, I belive wetting her hair, applying a hair conditioner and then combing from the ends up would be much easier, pain less and fast.❤
I have tender head alot when I was little
Sorry if this is mean I have adhd so random question do u think the sounds are communications
Momma whooped me in front if the cop one time. He walked off like nothing happened. If my child is acting up, they’re getting a whooping(depending on age)
Amen. Controlling yourself is key. 💯🙏🏾♥️
God bless you as you continue on your journey. you are a great witness to us all.
Before I realized what autism was I used to yell( Lord forgive me) but once I was open to it and accepted my child being autistic I cried and apologized to my baby. She shows me so much more love now and even refuse to go to school so she can be near me. I have to write note and may have to do homeschooling..I will try to get her in the next year of school 😂😂 I cant win for losing. My heart goes out to you the mom and her baby girl with all that hair I'm so envious of( I'm playing). She is such a wonderful channel. Watching channels like this helps me out til I get another car so I can take her to her activities and art museums again. I turned my house into a wall of pictures so she has images of art. Yes it hard work but I love her. I thank God my baby is verbal. She is high functioning but so socially awkward. Good job mom.
Your really doing a great job with you daughter I know its not easy you've got this in the bag as your a very patient parent your daughter knows that she feels it the way you treat her and handle the meltdowns is unbelievable congrats momma keep up the great work there are rainbows after every dark tunnel❤😊
Thank you for the reminder of this. As a parent it is so important embrace this powerful way of communicating
Yes!! You are an inspiration! Gentle parenting is emotional intelligence ❤
Gentle parenting is a thing. In this instance just know instead of suggesting your child to spray the extra water into the sink, into the hair is the better option.
thank you, momma. parenting us, too ❤
This was me and my mom every morning. I’m 34 years old and have come to recognize that I’ve had some neurodivergent (autistic) traits from childhood which I masked. Life was different in the 90s. I’m so happy you’re willing to work with her. She has such beautiful hair.
This is BS
It's okay for young children to have short hair. It's a lot less aggravation for the child and the parent. When she's older, if she wants long hair, she can maintain it for herself. In the mean time, a young child doesn't necessarily understand that they have long hair that needs a lot of care because their parents like it that way, not because the child is comfortable with it.
I love this!! Definitely needed this reminder ❤
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I'm raising a child with ADHD and Dyslexia. It's hard at times. I end up yelling even if I don't want to and I really don't like communicating like that. I still need to learn self control.
Good job, Mom! I actually learned this lesson completely by accident when a neighborhood child in my afterschool program had a full meltdown with nobody home. Mom and grandma were not available and could not be reached at all. So I picked up "Johnny" and walked out to the front porch swing where I held him while he yelled and screamed all over the neighborhood. I never said a word, just hugged and rocked, hugged and rocked. Until all the noise subsided and he fell asleep in my arms. Which was the whole problem in the first place. The child was tired. When he woke up, we went home and someone was there to receive him. That was my first lesson with the child of an acquaintance who had never been left with me before. I learned so much.
This is adlerian psychology, It's not intefering with a child's task, telling them their tasks and letting them do it. They will learn to do things for themselves, nto because someone is watching, meaning they are genuine in what they are doing and it also makes it enjoyable for them.
Is she home schooled
Aww🥺
She is so cute 🥹
No, its because people don't really know what gentle parenting is supposed to be. Correctly done, its very effective.
Baby that sigh at the end is just you being a black momma with a whole ton of composure so very demure
What is this!!!!????
What the heck is going on here!!!???
Am I in some asylum of the psychos or what!!!!???
@google @youtube @realcandaceo what is this????
Great job❤❤
Shhhh don’t let my grown kids see THIS!!! All lols aside,,, I wish my patience was at your level!
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