It still amazes me that you have to take a drivers test to handle a vehicle but if you want to have and be responsible for an entire person for 18+ years you can just do that without taking a single child development classβ¦
I'm still in the middle of my gentle parenting journey and sometimes I lose my s***, I always apologize and we go from there I got similar responses from people in my family telling me about how my child is going to walk all over me and is spoiled and such but I am doing better for her I am going to be better
Low key my cousins kids have gentle parents and even then I spanked them and it taught them a better lesson but Iβve also had serious talks with them when their brother or sister got injured by them lol kids are lovely but sometimes they need a good smack to the head for a reality checkπ
As a person whose in their mid/late 20s. I really find your content useful. I want children in my 30s and I have PTSD, anxiety and trauma. I react a lot to stress. I want to learn gentle/responsive parenting so I can be a good parent to my kids. Itβs really important to me.
I also thought gentle parenting meant zero discipline for the kids and that the children could not develop resilience from this parenting style. Now I am seeing that it gives children a healthy mentality and teaches them emotional regulation through parent-presented examples.
When parents feel like beat up their kid itβs because they are not liking their own actions or their spouses actions. Believe it or not kids act exactly like us and with a very closed mind the parent would only respond with some type of abuse.
This woman is the type that has never enforced any sort of boundaries or said no until the kid is like 5+ and is just living the way theyβve been taught. Then the mum turns around and screams at the kid and yells and gets really aggressive and wonders why they donβt respond to the word no or any boundaries that are set?! Like you canβt just switch over night π€·π»ββοΈ whereβs the consistency
In all situations of a child getting into trouble. I believe the parents should always talk to the child and explain why they're in trouble. I am a firm believer in the consequences of actions. Depending on the situation. Will depend on the consequence. spanking, grounding, taking away a phone/toy Or a Event That they were looking forward to Etc. Or maybe a combination of consequences. But it really depends on what they did to get in trouble. It's called parenting for a Reason. We are to raise the child up in the way that they should go.
Pls make more videos like this! Pls! Im not a parent, but I take care of my young siblings a lot of the time, and it's just so frustrating! They know what there supposed to do, they agree to do it, the understand why they have to do it, but then they don't do it! They don't listen! Idk what to do. I will not hit a child ever, and I do my best not to yell, but nothing's working.
I wish there was a way to message someone over YouTube π what I wouldnt do to sit and have coffee with you and I'm even in Oklahoma too lolπππ
Iβve watched a lot of your videos now, and Iβve been incredibly impressed with how closely you align with the theories about child development and learning Iβve studied as a special education student. It also makes me happy Iβm not a mother because Iβm just exhausted watching you, but as long as my free time is my own I think with practice I can be a pretty decent special ed teacherπ
Parents shouldnβt focus on catering to kids. Children must have routine and boundaries along with parents who demonstrate virtue and a moral compass. This brings up responsible moral adults for the future.
To everyone who wants to know, the stigma of gentle parenting has actually it's own term and is called "non-authoritary parenting" which is basically: Your kid explores the world as it likes, it makes it's decisions all alone no matter the age. The child parents itself so to say and the parents are just bystanders.
Doesnβt matter how you present it. The people who are like this just are not ready to work on their own shiz to be able to do this effectively. Realistically, it is a lot of self work. Itβs easy to be reactionary. I try talking to parents in therapy about this, stressed as all get out by their kids, and they just keep keeping on. But please keep educating! I send your videos to clients.
It still amazes me that you have to take a drivers test to handle a vehicle but if you want to have and be responsible for an entire person for 18+ years you can just do that without taking a single child development classβ¦
I know my comment does not pertain towards your message. The short blond wig is a good look on you.
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Hey a Tardis woooo
Not a parent here, but I have a puppy and I can totally relate
I'm still in the middle of my gentle parenting journey and sometimes I lose my s***, I always apologize and we go from there I got similar responses from people in my family telling me about how my child is going to walk all over me and is spoiled and such but I am doing better for her I am going to be better
I like that you had yo put on a conservative wig yo get Karen to listen to you.
Iβm a single dad. And I really appreciate the advice you are putting out there.
Sooooo good!
Low key my cousins kids have gentle parents and even then I spanked them and it taught them a better lesson but Iβve also had serious talks with them when their brother or sister got injured by them lol kids are lovely but sometimes they need a good smack to the head for a reality checkπ
Only time you should fight a baby is if they have a knife and they intend to use it. Even then, they're super easy to disarm
As a person whose in their mid/late 20s. I really find your content useful. I want children in my 30s and I have PTSD, anxiety and trauma. I react a lot to stress. I want to learn gentle/responsive parenting so I can be a good parent to my kids. Itβs really important to me.
I also thought gentle parenting meant zero discipline for the kids and that the children could not develop resilience from this parenting style. Now I am seeing that it gives children a healthy mentality and teaches them emotional regulation through parent-presented examples.
When parents feel like beat up their kid itβs because they are not liking their own actions or their spouses actions. Believe it or not kids act exactly like us and with a very closed mind the parent would only respond with some type of abuse.
This woman is the type that has never enforced any sort of boundaries or said no until the kid is like 5+ and is just living the way theyβve been taught. Then the mum turns around and screams at the kid and yells and gets really aggressive and wonders why they donβt respond to the word no or any boundaries that are set?! Like you canβt just switch over night π€·π»ββοΈ whereβs the consistency
THE TARDIS, OH MY TIME LORD!!!!!! β€οΈβ€οΈ
How to you train boys not to hit girls?
I literally pictured a tiny baby when she said she was close to fighting the baby π
Whoa total different vibes when you put a wig on!
THE WIG BAHAHAπ
AS SOMEONE WITH SHORT HAIR I RELATE TO THIS ON A PERSONAL LEVEL- THE AMOUNT OF TIMES PEOPLE HAVE SNUFFED ME BC OF MY HAIR IS INSANE π
In all situations of a child getting into trouble. I believe the parents should always talk to the child and explain why they're in trouble. I am a firm believer in the consequences of actions. Depending on the situation. Will depend on the consequence. spanking, grounding, taking away a phone/toy Or a Event That they were looking forward to Etc. Or maybe a combination of consequences. But it really depends on what they did to get in trouble. It's called parenting for a Reason. We are to raise the child up in the way that they should go.
Is this the same as attachment-style? Me and my ex were "big into that" (I don't know how else to say it atm) and this sounds very similar.
I heard it called "proactive parenting" "intentional parenting" it's the same thing, but they keep changing the name to throw people off π
Pls make more videos like this! Pls! Im not a parent, but I take care of my young siblings a lot of the time, and it's just so frustrating! They know what there supposed to do, they agree to do it, the understand why they have to do it, but then they don't do it! They don't listen! Idk what to do. I will not hit a child ever, and I do my best not to yell, but nothing's working.
Honestly, most people I know who use the term gentle parenting are very permissive.
I wish there was a way to message someone over YouTube π what I wouldnt do to sit and have coffee with you and I'm even in Oklahoma too lolπππ
Iβve watched a lot of your videos now, and Iβve been incredibly impressed with how closely you align with the theories about child development and learning Iβve studied as a special education student. It also makes me happy Iβm not a mother because Iβm just exhausted watching you, but as long as my free time is my own I think with practice I can be a pretty decent special ed teacherπ
I need to find a parenting style my evil genius boy child can't bend to his will.
Parents shouldnβt focus on catering to kids. Children must have routine and boundaries along with parents who demonstrate virtue and a moral compass. This brings up responsible moral adults for the future.
To everyone who wants to know, the stigma of gentle parenting has actually it's own term and is called "non-authoritary parenting" which is basically: Your kid explores the world as it likes, it makes it's decisions all alone no matter the age. The child parents itself so to say and the parents are just bystanders.
She's like Superman, but with a wig instead of glasses. She's the hero that we didn't know we needed!
I know what Iβm doing when I become a mom also love your videosβ€β€β€β€β€
Doesnβt matter how you present it. The people who are like this just are not ready to work on their own shiz to be able to do this effectively. Realistically, it is a lot of self work. Itβs easy to be reactionary. I try talking to parents in therapy about this, stressed as all get out by their kids, and they just keep keeping on. But please keep educating! I send your videos to clients.
Love this I need you
Idc what the blonde lady said Iβll take all the parenting advice I can get for my heathens of brothers π
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