I get jealous When I see a kid or a someone my age having a great relation with there dad I used to have a great relationship with my dad but then my found out he was cheating then they divorced never saw him again (I Am 12)
I don’t know how to feel my dad is amazing. I would do anything for him. I love him so much and he’s been so supportive, but my mom is kind of the complete opposite. I love her, but I don’t want her in my life and it’s not like she does drugs or anything. We just have such a toxic relationship.
They both suck no matter what, you feel spoiled and a brat anytime you get something without asking, or even if you ask. They’re helicopters, and are always pushy and extremley personal. They never let you have breaks and get mad when you don’t agree with them, or annoy/slightlyhurt them on accident (or maybe this is just my family and I’m a ppl pleaser) they’re always up in your space asking you things, don’t let you go anywhere without them (EVEN IF YOUR OVER 13). No matter what you do they always ask for more, and when your sad they ignore-or tell you to “calm down” or “it’s not that big of a deal” or “be quiet, it doesn’t hurt that much”. They constantly brush off things you say and act like they’re the victim anytime you slightly hint at being a bit uncomfortable/anooyed/sad around them. Every-time you ask for something that’s not that big of a deal and they don’t have plans EX: going to the park on the weekend sat AND it’s sunny. They will say “another day *insert name*, so many times that you stop asking and give up. And you feel uncomfortable and uneasy around them.
Or maybe I don’t have a healthy family idk 😭 Plus there’s a lot more, I just can’t remember
I wish we all can just live a peaceful life one day, so we don't need to exchange or compare toxic and healthy families! I just wish we the future of our generations be blessed with kind and caring kids! Hope u all take this message!
idk if my family is healthy or toxic cause sometimes i am so thankful i have them and i couldnt get anything better than this then there are times i feel i cud just die but still i dont blame them for anything because all i feel is maybe i was at fault for stringing the wrong chord
Yo thats me My parents are not only toxic but abusive (Strangling, punching, slapping, hitting EXTREMELY hard, doesn't care about my feelings, controls how I act and how I dress, strict, swearing, yelling LOUDLY, forgetting I exist, nearly killing me) then acting all so "innocent" in front of others.. But now its like they don't care my Dad yelled at me in front of all my teachers like what,where's the version of acting all "innocent" and when you treat me "nicely" (cause others are over) I feel weird Anyone else?
My bestie wants to swap places. She couldn't scream-queen fit with my mother every day. She couldn't defend herself like she was a gladiator in a Roman court. She couldn't handle looking at my parents and shutting down because you can't spend all day in the living room fighting. She couldn't take the side talking. It's just so dysfunctional and healthy families think it's not hard.
•Parents fighting (no physical abuse) Hi, their are 4 members in my family me, my sister, father & mother. My sister is out of town right now for study purpose, and this is me alone in home with my father & mother. They normally fight like 5 days in a week but it's usually my mother who's voice is louder cause she starts it and my father stays calm for all the time but today what happened is they started fighting over the father's side family where his family always taunts and mentally abuses my mother. This are few reasons why they fight and today what happened is the argument blown up my mother ran out the house my father ran out the house and this was the first time I saw my father crying so you can guess it how big it was. I somehow stopped my father at the house then a neighbor man of mine saw my mother going somewhere he helped me get to her then I again somehow managed to get her home safely Now I'm stuck bro I have many people friends, family, neighbour's to help but I don't want to disclose this to anyone even my sister because If I told her she would be depressed bro and wouldn't focus also she's alone out. I can't think anything bro I'm just 15 year old. Please if you are an adult or even young and this happened to you please highly give advice to me, I don't want to lose my parents bro I don't want them to get lost in darkness or even if they go somewhere nothing happens to them. I am alone I'd better die if something like that happen I can't survive bro I don't want them to have divorce or something.
I have a heathy family but my dad through some crap his mom died because of breast cancer but my parents did not get along well so but my parents are nice to me :3
They never understand me every time I take a little bit to get out of the bed for school even though school for me starts at 6:03 they always yell at me telling me to get up or even forcing you to get up whenever I take a little bit to get out of bed(I’m 13 btw and IRL most of my life is OK)
As somsone with a dysfunctional family, this speaks to my soul. Why am i seeing this a year late?
I get jealous When I see a kid or a someone my age having a great relation with there dad
I used to have a great relationship with my dad but then my found out he was cheating then they divorced never saw him again
(I Am 12)
FRRR
I would not want someone to suffer like I did
I literally smile for no reason just bec i have to ,even tho i dont feel like that😊
I wish we could not swap and all families could just be healthy
I don’t know how to feel my dad is amazing. I would do anything for him. I love him so much and he’s been so supportive, but my mom is kind of the complete opposite. I love her, but I don’t want her in my life and it’s not like she does drugs or anything. We just have such a toxic relationship.
I hate my dad and when he shouts at me for now reason I want to kms
well im w0rried to get c@nceled, so I'll just type like this.
Same 😭
The only time i accept replacing weird symbols and numbers for letters is when its NOT used for censoring and used for roleplaying or just for fun 😭
They both suck no matter what, you feel spoiled and a brat anytime you get something without asking, or even if you ask. They’re helicopters, and are always pushy and extremley personal. They never let you have breaks and get mad when you don’t agree with them, or annoy/slightlyhurt them on accident (or maybe this is just my family and I’m a ppl pleaser) they’re always up in your space asking you things, don’t let you go anywhere without them (EVEN IF YOUR OVER 13). No matter what you do they always ask for more, and when your sad they ignore-or tell you to “calm down” or “it’s not that big of a deal” or “be quiet, it doesn’t hurt that much”. They constantly brush off things you say and act like they’re the victim anytime you slightly hint at being a bit uncomfortable/anooyed/sad around them. Every-time you ask for something that’s not that big of a deal and they don’t have plans EX: going to the park on the weekend
satAND it’s sunny. They will say “another day *insert name*, so many times that you stop asking and give up. And you feel uncomfortable and uneasy around them.Or maybe I don’t have a healthy family idk 😭
Plus there’s a lot more, I just can’t remember
I wish we all can just live a peaceful life one day, so we don't need to exchange or compare toxic and healthy families! I just wish we the future of our generations be blessed with kind and caring kids! Hope u all take this message!
idk if my family is healthy or toxic cause sometimes i am so thankful i have them and i couldnt get anything better than this then there are times i feel i cud just die but still i dont blame them for anything because all i feel is maybe i was at fault for stringing the wrong chord
Yall I might lowkey commit
I'm jealous whenever I see a family happy.
Why did I do to deserve this.
to be honest i wish my family never existed all I want is a mom an dad who love me
My parents always figth that think chaeting😢
That me I’m crying and I’m a sick in my head 😢
I wish I could swap places all my parents give a fuck about is money
this song just makes me happy
I wouldn’t want to swap places. No one else should have to deal with this hell. And I’m used to it now at this point. A fresh mind would go crazy
I would never swap places
I don't wish the toxicity on someone else, I couldn't imagine making someone go through that
Fr tho
Bad parenting is so sad 😢
Since when does the word HEALTHY need to be censored?!
2024 generation of women are worthless, worse and toxic… Toxic feminist…
Yo thats me
My parents are not only toxic but abusive
(Strangling, punching, slapping, hitting EXTREMELY hard, doesn't care about my feelings, controls how I act and how I dress, strict, swearing, yelling LOUDLY, forgetting I exist, nearly killing me) then acting all so "innocent" in front of others.. But now its like they don't care my Dad yelled at me in front of all my teachers like what,where's the version of acting all "innocent" and when you treat me "nicely" (cause others are over) I feel weird
Anyone else?
My bestie wants to swap places.
She couldn't scream-queen fit with my mother every day.
She couldn't defend herself like she was a gladiator in a Roman court.
She couldn't handle looking at my parents and shutting down because you can't spend all day in the living room fighting.
She couldn't take the side talking.
It's just so dysfunctional and healthy families think it's not hard.
•Parents fighting (no physical abuse)
Hi, their are 4 members in my family me, my sister, father & mother. My sister is out of town right now for study purpose, and this is me alone in home with my father & mother.
They normally fight like 5 days in a week but it's usually my mother who's voice is louder cause she starts it and my father stays calm for all the time but today what happened is they started fighting over the father's side family where his family always taunts and mentally abuses my mother.
This are few reasons why they fight and today what happened is the argument blown up my mother ran out the house my father ran out the house and this was the first time I saw my father crying so you can guess it how big it was. I somehow stopped my father at the house then a neighbor man of mine saw my mother going somewhere he helped me get to her then I again somehow managed to get her home safely
Now I'm stuck bro I have many people friends, family, neighbour's to help but I don't want to disclose this to anyone even my sister because If I told her she would be depressed bro and wouldn't focus also she's alone out. I can't think anything bro I'm just 15 year old.
Please if you are an adult or even young and this happened to you please highly give advice to me, I don't want to lose my parents bro I don't want them to get lost in darkness or even if they go somewhere nothing happens to them.
I am alone I'd better die if something like that happen I can't survive bro I don't want them to have divorce or something.
My dad always does things like this and I’m tired of it, I keep telling him that it messes with my feelings, but no one ever listens.
For real
I have a heathy family but my dad through some crap his mom died because of breast cancer but my parents did not get along well so but my parents are nice to me :3
They never understand me every time I take a little bit to get out of the bed for school even though school for me starts at 6:03 they always yell at me telling me to get up or even forcing you to get up whenever I take a little bit to get out of bed(I’m 13 btw and IRL most of my life is OK)
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