My dad had the best spanking system: sent us to our room to stew for what felt like ten minutes (was probably like three), let us work the spanking up in our minds, arrive and allow us to beg for mercy, then give us literally the gentlest tap. Didn’t matter that the spankings never actually hurt; in our heads, we were goners. 😂
there is no discipline these days just empathy. Thats why we have a generation of people who are not able to deal with the real world, who do not have the mental fortitude to cope with challenging times. It could also be a contributing factor to why there is more crime and domestic violence now, because people do not know how to control their emotions or show temperance.
I call BS. There's no way Ben has 4 kids and hasn't had to whoop ass on occasion. Like….it's literally impossible to control 4 kids without spanking lol
“I’m not a fan of the spanking, but the opposite is not good.” Very smart way of putting it.
I usually say that the vast majority of kids never need to be spanked. Some very small number do, but the vast majority never need to be spanked… but they need to know that it’s a possibility.
The reason Ben is not a fan of spanking is because discipline abd punishment are different. They aren't synonyms. One is productive. To figure out the difference look at the root words. A disciple is a student. But punative? That's striking. Thats a prisoner. Do you see your child more as a student or as your prisoner? Ben went to Harvard he isn't as dumb as who he grifts to….
The problem is some countries are banned from even hitting your child cause that would be "Child abuse", there is a difference between discipline and child abuse, and for countries supporting Gentle parenting just suck. These kids are gonna grow and be a selfish person and thinks they are the higher person and not respecting other people. Parents should consider discipline as an option when situation gets out of hand, if ur kid hits another kid and u don't do nothing, that's an idiot idea.
The stare was always a major thing i got from my mum😂 Even my cousins knew not to act out when they got the stare from my mum It meant you were going to get it if u dont quit misbehaving and honestly i wouldn't have had it any other way i rather be scolded and disciplined than spoiled and without manners
I was raised with a bible in one hand and a belt in the other, a little discipline didn't kill me and I'm still alive and became a productive adult in society and give back to my community. I raised my kid the same way. I remember one time in the grocery store a kid was having a tantrum and threw himself on the store floor, we were going by, my son who was 3 at the time, with a straight face looked him and he says to me "you wouldn't let me get away with that huh mommy, I said nope." That woman just looked at me with a blank stare. I didn't say nothing just walked on by.
This is not gentle parenting. But you won’t listen to people who do gentle parenting the correct way because two people I’ve found are, at the very least, not critical of the LGBTQ+ community. I’ve got my own opinions but considering that “gentle parenting” is actually about being responsive to your kids rather than reacting to them and still not just letting children be hooligans, the name gets a bad rep because people are LAZY parents and use the “gentle” as an excuse. You don’t have to beat your kids as punishment, you don’t have to yell at them, they still have boundaries and manners and respect. I’m tired of the narrow sightedness of hard core Christians not doing any real research on what they’re being critical of like this. I grew up with very open minded Christian relatives and I love them dearly. But you are not that.
Children that have NEVER been spanked, are easily identified by parents that discipline their children. My opinion was always saving “spankings” for danger & disrespect. A kid puts himself or someone else in danger, a swat on the butt is a valuable tool to make the child remember. Disrespect is immediate pop on the mouth. Of course, this must be done when the child is young, so that by the time they are teens, respect and obedience is ingrained. Gentle parenting is why we have children & young adults today who are disrespectful brats.
Oh I spank my 4 year old and it doesn't matter where we are.
I LOVE the snort. I'm a snorter, too.
My dad had the best spanking system: sent us to our room to stew for what felt like ten minutes (was probably like three), let us work the spanking up in our minds, arrive and allow us to beg for mercy, then give us literally the gentlest tap. Didn’t matter that the spankings never actually hurt; in our heads, we were goners. 😂
Well, that's why you're supposed to teach.Your kids don't cry over spilt milk
there is no discipline these days just empathy. Thats why we have a generation of people who are not able to deal with the real world, who do not have the mental fortitude to cope with challenging times. It could also be a contributing factor to why there is more crime and domestic violence now, because people do not know how to control their emotions or show temperance.
Go outside and bring me a switch
I Strongly agree with Ben of this one.
“We all got spanked” Yh and that generation turned out fine didn’t it.
Society tells your children it's abusive, though.
“He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him” -Proverbs 13:24
Insane!
Wow this guy actually doesn't know what he's talking about. Just scratching the surface judgementally
I call BS. There's no way Ben has 4 kids and hasn't had to whoop ass on occasion. Like….it's literally impossible to control 4 kids without spanking lol
Did not peg Ben Shapiro as a non spanker…interesting
“I’m not a fan of the spanking, but the opposite is not good.”
Very smart way of putting it.
I usually say that the vast majority of kids never need to be spanked. Some very small number do, but the vast majority never need to be spanked… but they need to know that it’s a possibility.
When you don’t discipline your kids, they grow up physically but not mentally. No one likes an adult who throws tantrums like a toddler.
The reason Ben is not a fan of spanking is because discipline abd punishment are different. They aren't synonyms. One is productive. To figure out the difference look at the root words. A disciple is a student. But punative? That's striking. Thats a prisoner. Do you see your child more as a student or as your prisoner? Ben went to Harvard he isn't as dumb as who he grifts to….
yea this is the first clip I see that isn't funny
Liberals raising woke people, that's what it is 😂
Love John Crist!
The problem is some countries are banned from even hitting your child cause that would be "Child abuse", there is a difference between discipline and child abuse, and for countries supporting Gentle parenting just suck. These kids are gonna grow and be a selfish person and thinks they are the higher person and not respecting other people. Parents should consider discipline as an option when situation gets out of hand, if ur kid hits another kid and u don't do nothing, that's an idiot idea.
The stare was always a major thing i got from my mum😂
Even my cousins knew not to act out when they got the stare from my mum
It meant you were going to get it if u dont quit misbehaving and honestly i wouldn't have had it any other way i rather be scolded and disciplined than spoiled and without manners
I was raised with a bible in one hand and a belt in the other, a little discipline didn't kill me and I'm still alive and became a productive adult in society and give back to my community. I raised my kid the same way. I remember one time in the grocery store a kid was having a tantrum and threw himself on the store floor, we were going by, my son who was 3 at the time, with a straight face looked him and he says to me "you wouldn't let me get away with that huh mommy, I said nope." That woman just looked at me with a blank stare. I didn't say nothing just walked on by.
Holy shit dude, this is evil.
This is not gentle parenting. But you won’t listen to people who do gentle parenting the correct way because two people I’ve found are, at the very least, not critical of the LGBTQ+ community. I’ve got my own opinions but considering that “gentle parenting” is actually about being responsive to your kids rather than reacting to them and still not just letting children be hooligans, the name gets a bad rep because people are LAZY parents and use the “gentle” as an excuse. You don’t have to beat your kids as punishment, you don’t have to yell at them, they still have boundaries and manners and respect. I’m tired of the narrow sightedness of hard core Christians not doing any real research on what they’re being critical of like this. I grew up with very open minded Christian relatives and I love them dearly. But you are not that.
Do people know the difference between gentle parenting and refusing to give your kids appropriate necessary discipline?
That's not what gentle parenting is. Idiots 🤦🏽. No wonder y'all still Believe there's a magical invisible genie in the sky. What do your it? God? 🤣🤣🤣
Children that have NEVER been spanked, are easily identified by parents that discipline their children. My opinion was always saving “spankings” for danger & disrespect. A kid puts himself or someone else in danger, a swat on the butt is a valuable tool to make the child remember. Disrespect is immediate pop on the mouth. Of course, this must be done when the child is young, so that by the time they are teens, respect and obedience is ingrained. Gentle parenting is why we have children & young adults today who are disrespectful brats.
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