Does My Wife Need to Know About My Porn Habit?
This is the fifth and last installment in a series for this column, answering readers’ thorniest questions about sex and… Read More »Does My Wife Need to Know About My Porn Habit?
Is It OK to Read a Newspaper Online When I’ve Stopped Paying for It?
⬥ I take issue with the Ethicist’s advice to the woman who would like to have a sexual encounter with… Read More »Is It OK to Read a Newspaper Online When I’ve Stopped Paying for It?
I’m H.I.V.-Positive but Undetectable. Do Casual Sex Partners Need to Know?
This is the fourth installment in a series for this column, answering readers’ thorniest questions about sex and love as… Read More »I’m H.I.V.-Positive but Undetectable. Do Casual Sex Partners Need to Know?
Is It OK That I’m Withholding Sex Until My Husband Sorts Out His Invoices?
This is the third installment in a series for this column, answering readers’ thorniest questions about sex and love as… Read More »Is It OK That I’m Withholding Sex Until My Husband Sorts Out His Invoices?
I Have Erectile Dysfunction. Do I Have to Disclose This Before Sex?
This is the second installment of a recent series for this column, answering readers’ thorniest questions about sex and love… Read More »I Have Erectile Dysfunction. Do I Have to Disclose This Before Sex?
I’m Happily Married. I Just Want to Sleep With Another Man Before I Die.
This man would have to be someone I don’t know and will never see again. I have researched a plan… Read More »I’m Happily Married. I Just Want to Sleep With Another Man Before I Die.
Should I Renounce a Religious Group That’s Taken a Bad Turn?
I’m in my 50s and, since my college days, have been associated with a monastic organization based in India. The… Read More »Should I Renounce a Religious Group That’s Taken a Bad Turn?
Can Accepting Money for Volunteering Be the Right Thing to Do?
My husband is a physician and volunteers extensively at a rural clinic for uninsured patients. He recently won a local… Read More »Can Accepting Money for Volunteering Be the Right Thing to Do?
What’s the Rule About Looking at Women in Public?
⬥ As a retired Episcopal priest, I generally agree. It is important to remember that there are many diverse understandings… Read More »What’s the Rule About Looking at Women in Public?
Can I Go to Church When I Don’t Believe?
⬥ In Amsterdam, traffic lights have has three signals — for cars, pedestrians and bikes. At least at major intersections,… Read More »Can I Go to Church When I Don’t Believe?