Does My Wife Need to Know About My Porn Habit?
This is the fifth and last installment in a series for this column, answering readers’ thorniest questions about sex and… Read More »Does My Wife Need to Know About My Porn Habit?
I’m H.I.V.-Positive but Undetectable. Do Casual Sex Partners Need to Know?
This is the fourth installment in a series for this column, answering readers’ thorniest questions about sex and love as… Read More »I’m H.I.V.-Positive but Undetectable. Do Casual Sex Partners Need to Know?
How I Learned That the Problem in My Marriage Was Me
That we were able to see him remains surprising, as does the fact that I can now watch it unfold… Read More »How I Learned That the Problem in My Marriage Was Me
Is It OK That I’m Withholding Sex Until My Husband Sorts Out His Invoices?
This is the third installment in a series for this column, answering readers’ thorniest questions about sex and love as… Read More »Is It OK That I’m Withholding Sex Until My Husband Sorts Out His Invoices?
I’m Happily Married. I Just Want to Sleep With Another Man Before I Die.
This man would have to be someone I don’t know and will never see again. I have researched a plan… Read More »I’m Happily Married. I Just Want to Sleep With Another Man Before I Die.
Weight Loss Drugs and Their Lesser Known Side Effects on Relationships
Javier comes across as bewildered by the changes in his wife. He is grieving, he says, the loss of the… Read More »Weight Loss Drugs and Their Lesser Known Side Effects on Relationships
These Couples Survived a Lot. Then Came Retirement.
At lunch that day, Joe wore a pink flannel shirt that suited him and had clearly been picked out by… Read More »These Couples Survived a Lot. Then Came Retirement.
Should I Lie So That My Cousin Can Have a Catholic Wedding?
A few years ago, my cousin became single after an end to a decades-long marriage. Both he and I are… Read More »Should I Lie So That My Cousin Can Have a Catholic Wedding?
Can a Sexless Marriage Be a Happy One?
Lilien, who has two kids, says becoming a mother was a turning point for her. She had to leave her… Read More »Can a Sexless Marriage Be a Happy One?
A 20-Person Polycule on Boundaries, Relationships and Intimacy
The word “polycule” is a synthesis of polyamory — engaging in multiple romantic relationships — and molecule. It’s not clear… Read More »A 20-Person Polycule on Boundaries, Relationships and Intimacy